Binder Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I have been going out with this wonderful girl from one of my class. We have been on two dates and she tells me she has been having the best time. I like her but I'd like to date another girl from the same class who knows each other. Would this create a problem if I decide that I would like to pursue something more with the other girl and stop dating the girl I'm dating now? I figured that it would be ok since I am not yet exclusive with the girl I'm dating now.
Author Binder Posted July 22, 2007 Author Posted July 22, 2007 Ok I feel better about dating the second one. Don't know why I would feel guilty about doing this.
garnet Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I'd be careful and make sure that you're open with both girls about dating other people. If they talk to each other and find out you've been dating both of them, they might just think you're a player and trying to have your cake and eat it too.
Turquoise Waters Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I would wait until the class is over to ask the second girl out, and be fair to the girl you are now dating, back off dating her. You could cause a lot of hurt feelings to the girl if you start dating the other girl and you and the other girl are sitting next to each other, "friendly," etc. and the first girl who likes you has to watch. It would be hurtful, IMO, whether you are "exclusive" or not with the first girl.
Turquoise Waters Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 two dates does not a relationship make Actually that depends on the couple. I had a guy I was in a serious relationship for 2 years, we were pretty much a couple after the second date. The chemistry was just there.
AHIWON Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 Alpha is right. And if it were me, I"d pick the one I liked the most.
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