billbud Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 First off my girlfriend of 2+ years is no longer interested in sex. She says she's not turned on ever, and claims it's not because of me (which I don't believe for a minute). I really don't feel loved anymore, and I'm deeply saddened by the fact that she doesn't love me anymore (even though she claims she does) - she's been acting very apathetic lately, which imaginably is really frustrating. It also seems that she's been talking about our "relationship problems" with her other friends - and I feel like when she talks to me about it she's skirting the real issues (I feel like she's way more honest and open with her friends than with me). It hurts because I used to think of her as my best friend, and now I feel a little out casted. Any advice?
Tyra Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I would talk to her and ask her about the issue. During the two and a half relationship, did yall have sex constantly, like all the time? Because that could be a reason that she doesn't find any pleasure of it anymore. Are you sastisying her enough and the way she wants, to your knowledge? Just talk more to her and tell her to come completely honest with you so that you two can work it out because you don't want to lose her.
Yamaha Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 First off my girlfriend of 2+ years is no longer interested in sex. She says she's not turned on ever, and claims it's not because of me (which I don't believe for a minute). I really don't feel loved anymore, and I'm deeply saddened by the fact that she doesn't love me anymore (even though she claims she does) - she's been acting very apathetic lately, which imaginably is really frustrating. It also seems that she's been talking about our "relationship problems" with her other friends - and I feel like when she talks to me about it she's skirting the real issues (I feel like she's way more honest and open with her friends than with me). It hurts because I used to think of her as my best friend, and now I feel a little out casted. Any advice? She is evaluating your relationship. She will not discuss it with you until she has come to a conclusion. Usually by that time she has made her decision and there will be nothing you can do or say to change her mind. I'm sorry but I would get prepared for her departure.
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