Tomcat33 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Well your intelligence should definitely be in question, because its obvious you cannot read. At no time did I change my story. Actually, your posting proved that it was consistent. In both posts that you tried to compare, I said in both that I found out she cheated on me during our engagement. So where is the changing of the story? You were asked how long did you stay with your W after you found out she cheated on you. Your answer: ONE DAY YOU ARE FULL OF CRAP. You have been debating whether to leave her or not for a year now. People can click on the posts by SC to see that. Take a hike SC! Nice try but my intelligence is just fine thank you very much now run along...
whichwayisup Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Obviously some new info came up and that's why his wife is not around anymore, which he has said happened 3 weeks ago...That she actually DID cheat in the marriage. The first time he found out was her cheating before they got married, not after - Though he had said many times he suspected her cheating IN the marriage - Now he knows, and she's gone. Sorry, but I don't see the point in arguing over this with him. You're only frustrating yourself, which is why I suggested the ignore function.
bish Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 You were asked how long did you stay with your W after you found out she cheated on you. Your answer: ONE DAY Yes, ONE DAY AFTER I found out she cheated on me WHILE MARRIED. Read again, I told this person that I DID take her back when I found out years after being married that she cheated WHILE ENGAGED. YOU ARE FULL OF CRAP. No, you just can't read. You have been debating whether to leave her or not for a year now. People can click on the posts by SC to see that. That is correct, I have debated whether to leave her. Then, 3 weeks ago, when I found out she cheated DURING MARRIAGE, she was kicked to the curb. Got it now?...Did it sink through that cerebrally challenged cranium of yours? Take a hike SC! Nice try but my intelligence is just fine thank you ... Obviously not since you can't comprehend what you read.
bish Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Obviously some new info came up and that's why his wife is not around anymore, which he has said happened 3 weeks ago...That she actually DID cheat in the marriage. The first time he found out was her cheating before they got married, not after - Though he had said many times he suspected her cheating IN the marriage - Now he knows, and she's gone. . BINGO!!!!!!!
Tomcat33 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 you know what BISH? As far as I am concerned you have 0 credibility, I have pointed out the obvious crap you lie about, and have exposed the fact that you come back here with different aliases even after you were banned from the site. You can twist your stories around as many times as you want but it's a waste of time because it is obvious your word is worth nothing. People can judge for themselves on what you are about. I made you an offer, I asked you to play it cool and stop abusing people on here and I would keep my mouth shut but you PREFER this nonsense of insults because you are one out of control dude. It's only time until you get banned again until then... tah-tah!
Tomcat33 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Sorry, but I don't see the point in arguing over this with him. You're only frustrating yourself, which is why I suggested the ignore function. The point is to get him to STOP harrassing women on this forum because he has a ton of personal issues. Most of us can let his insults roll off of our backs some women can't some women are in fragile states when they turn to LS. NO ONE should be subjected to his abuse because he as issues at home! Just trying to protect something I beleive in. And before you ask me why I didn't just report him I could have but I wanted to give him the oportunity to agree to make peace seeing as he is still entitled to turn to LS for his emotional support on his issues, I didn't want to deprive him of that had I just reported him. But seeing has he is only here for one reason and one reason only I should have just reported his a$$
whichwayisup Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 TC, he hasn't lied...He just never did a big post announcing they've split up,(that I know of, I haven't gone digging into his previous recent threads)but he has put it out that info out there in various posts. I know you don't like that he speaks his mind and yeah, at times he is harsh, put him on ignore or just don't react to it, then you won't feel so upset by it all.
Lizzie60 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 I agree with WWWU... completely ignore him... He's only digging his grave... LOL From reading posters here, we have a good idea of who are the losers, the smart *ss, the idiots, and who are intelligent. I didn't go back to read his story cause, really, I'm not interested at all, as far as I'm concerned... I'm not surprised he was cheated on with this kind of personality... good for her!
Tomcat33 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 I'm not surprised he was cheated on with this kind of personality... good for her! you said what I was thinking, but thought it was too mean to post... it's not a matter if ignoring him or not, I can definitely ignore him. I just want him to stop, he upsets so many women and it bugs me. And WWIU he does not just peak his mind he full on insults people. BIG DIFFERENCE. I don't know why you protect him so much? Unless of course you get some pleasure out his insults....
whichwayisup Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 No, I don't get pleasure out of it...I guess I made the effort to get to know him abit more through PM's and that's why. he upsets so many women and it bugs me Those women are grown women and can protect themselves...
Tomcat33 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Those women are grown women and can protect themselves... Funny last I checked it APPEARED he was a grown man too, he can also protect himself can't he? I mean you are doing a fine job at protecting him and all... ironic no?
annabelle75 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 No, I don't get pleasure out of it...I guess I made the effort to get to know him abit more through PM's and that's why. Those women are grown women and can protect themselves... Comments such as these just make me want to go in the Infidelity forum and start insulting the posters there, to see if the BS will have the same attitude about it insulting people there as doing it here.
Tomcat33 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Comments such as these just make me want to go in the Infidelity forum and start insulting the posters there, to see if the BS will have the same attitude about it insulting people there as doing it here. Her posts are filled with hypocricy get used to it Annabelle...the irony is she is doing the EXACT same thing she is asking me NOT to do LOL
InfinitySymbol Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Funny how when the OW are being attacked everyone says they are grown women, they know they are not going to hear what they want...BLAH BLAH The min someone goes after a BS for the attacks...WOW..lets be nice and understanding to them...
Lizzie60 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Comments such as these just make me want to go in the Infidelity forum and start insulting the posters there, to see if the BS will have the same attitude about it insulting people there as doing it here. Let's Go!!!!
TogetherForever Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Let's Go!!!! Me too. On your mark, get set, go........................................
Tomcat33 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 you know what WWIUP? If you wanna be a good friend to Bish, if you want to help him and are really concerned with his emotional well being, instead of egging him on when he wants to abuse posters why don't you do what a TRUE friend would do and tell him to use his excessive negative energy in a more constructive manner. You're a grown woman who seems to be constantly preaching what's right and what's wrong, why don't you steer him down the right path instead of fuelling his animosity! I guess some of us are better at being "friends" then others.
Impudent Oyster Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Alright, who is willing to risk getting banned by starting the "Why I would never lower myself to begging a cheating spouse to stay with me..." thread in the Infidelity Forum? That statement makes ZERO sense, you've got it backwards, No BS has ever begged a cheating spouse to stay with them, it's the cheating spouse who does the begging (and groveling, and pleading, and, well, you get the picture)..Duh! And Annabelle, you had to much self-respect to stay married to a cheater but now youve thrown every shred of self-respect you might have had away to cheat with a married man? WTF? What are YOU doing posting on OW boards? I'm going to go out on a limb here and speculate. Annabelle, is your exhusband remarried? Just a wild guess.
bish Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 you know what BISH? As far as I am concerned you have 0 credibility, I have pointed out the obvious crap you lie about No you haven't. You have pointed out the fact that you can't keep a timeline and realize what events occurred in what order and when. and have exposed the fact that you come back here with different aliases even after you were banned from the site. uh....and..?? You can twist your stories around as many times as you want but it's a waste of time because it is obvious your word is worth nothing. LOL....its obvious that you can't tell the difference of what happened a year ago, and what happened just in the last 3 weeks. I made you an offer, I asked you to play it cool and stop abusing people on here and I would keep my mouth shut Ooooh...I'm quaking in my boots. LOL..you sure do have delusions of grandieur if you think people are threatened by you.
GreenEyedLady Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 No BS has ever begged a cheating spouse to stay with them, it's the cheating spouse who does the begging (and groveling, and pleading, and, well, you get the picture)..Duh! :laugh:quote] Umm, excuse me, you can't speak for every BS, only yourself...I happen to know that my best friend begged her now XH to stay after telling him he couldn't leave (he left her for the OW)...So try and stick to your own experience without making sweeping generalizations...
bish Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 TC, he hasn't lied...He just never did a big post announcing they've split up,(that I know of, I haven't gone digging into his previous recent threads)but he has put it out that info out there in various posts. I mentioned it in another couple of threads, I just didn't feel the need to make a big issue out of it. She is gone and I'm glad.
annabelle75 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 That statement makes ZERO sense, you've got it backwards, No BS has ever begged a cheating spouse to stay with them, it's the cheating spouse who does the begging (and groveling, and pleading, and, well, you get the picture)..Duh! And Annabelle, you had to much self-respect to stay married to a cheater but now youve thrown every shred of self-respect you might have had away to cheat with a married man? WTF? What are YOU doing posting on OW boards? I'm going to go out on a limb here and speculate. Annabelle, is your exhusband remarried? Just a wild guess. Wrong again, on all counts. I sympathize with the OW because I became one with out knowing it. The MM in my sitaution lived out of state and had me and our freinds believeing he was in the middle of a divorce. When the truth came out both I and the BS found out at the same time. In the aftermath I had to deal with alot of the same issues the OW here do, so I understand what they are feeling. And ..... no my exhusband is not remarried. If you are goign to personally attack people you migth want to make sure you actually know their stories first.
whichwayisup Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Any OW who becomes an OW without knowing the MM is married are victims. That, I think everyone can agree on. Though, once the truth is found out and the OW decides to still be the OW, she's no longer a victim. There have been afew threads about this and it's sad that a person can lie and pretend (or OMIT) the fact they're married.
luvmy2ns Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Is there a reason you feel the need to speak down to everyone? The condescending tone in your posts doesn't help in getting your point across. And your previous post literally did not make any sense, hence the need for you to explain. And in answer to your post ......... the OW/OM isn't hurting the BS. The MM/MW that is cheating on them is. If you are goign to start pointing a finger and placing blame on some one make sure you are pointing it the responsible party. If the only thing that is keeping a MM/MW from cheating is the lack of an available OM/OW....well ....... I'm sure you get the point of what I am saying. There's an old saying that goes "It takes two to tango." As for speaking down, telling me my post made no sense isn't speaking down? It became obvious I needed to dumb it down just a tad, and it worked.
bish Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Wrong again, on all counts. I sympathize with the OW because I became one with out knowing it. . And there is where you are different from some of the other OW here, namely one obvious one. The ones I do not sympathize with, and downright despise, are the ones who become it knowingly, and don't care who else they are helping to hurt as long as they are getting what they want.
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