heartbroken444 Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 A girl tells you that "she needs her space." Okay i know every situation is different, but i dont think that when a girl tells you this that its the end of the world. Basically, i need space means "im afraid to commit." This usually happens to young girls, or girls who havent found out what they want out of life yet. Girls who are afraid that they arent living their lives to the fullest. There are few good men out there, and even fewer great men. Most men like their space, but for different reasons. When men need their space we call it what it is ...being afraid to commit. I think that women will eventually realize, when they see that you have remained faithfull, honest, and true to your heart, that they are in love and will miss the person that loved them most. The No-Contact theory actually works i think. It gives them a chance to breathe, gives them a chance to take some time for themselves. Do you trust the girl that you love? Most women that need a break arent looking to hurt the people that they care about, instead they just need to expieriance life for themselves, its a growing up process. Some women grow up quickly, others take their time. A girl who is truly in love wont make you wait forever. You shouldnt have to wait forever. Don't be sad, let her know that you are strong and be supportive of her decisions, no matter how much you may disagree with them. If you want this girl back, you musnt beg for her, or let her see that you are desperate. You need to give them a chase, go out with your friends ...show her that you are the man that everyone wants. Be self-confident. She will come back and fall so hard in love with you ...almost garenteed. Just be a good man ... God will let you know if it was meant to be. You didnt do anything wrong, you just have an immature relationship that needs to grow ... Let her be the one to call you, and when she does, act like a friend more than a lover. Be her friend first and have fun, let her know that you are more than just "forever". Let her see that she can have fun with you. Dont move too fast, take it easy, dont be controlling as us men like to be, and be there for her when she needs you most. This is a very desperate time in a girls life ...she needs room and she wants to find herself in what we all know is a mixed up world. Once she does, she will know what is right for her, and what she wants out of life, and if she had feelings for you, and you love her that much, she will come back!!
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