supertouch Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 it's been my experience that these guys are fake and usually break hearts.
InsanityImpaired Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 Because they can actually hold a conversation about something else than football? Because they don't think they are the center of the universe? Because they don't constantly make remarks about the breasts and / or ass of whatever girl walks by? Because they can think of other ways to spend their time other than strip clubs and getting drunk in bars? I must admit, I am shocked that some girls are interested in such guys.
bish Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 it's been my experience that these guys are fake and usually break hearts. As opposed to what?...being open about being an ahole? And its been my experience that women do NOT go for caring and nice guys. they go for the bad boys, then bitch and moan when they turn out to be the jerks they really knew they were in the first place.
electric_sheep Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 Remember though, guys are onto this, so there are guys out there just pretending to be thoughtful and caring. Sometimes I find them more annoying than the up front and frank *******s out there.
jcster Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 Remember though, guys are onto this, so there are guys out there just pretending to be thoughtful and caring. Sometimes I find them more annoying than the up front and frank *******s out there. It's definitely buyer beware. I've learned the hard way to be extra aware for a bad vibe. The players will tell you anything you want to hear - but talk is cheap and the smart woman will look for actions over words.
norajane Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 Because they can actually hold a conversation about something else than football? Because they don't think they are the center of the universe? Because they don't constantly make remarks about the breasts and / or ass of whatever girl walks by? Because they can think of other ways to spend their time other than strip clubs and getting drunk in bars? I must admit, I am shocked that some girls are interested in such guys. :lmao: Supertouch, if they are fakes, they can't keep it up for very long and you can tell pretty quickly that they're not thoughtful or caring at all.
Shaggy Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 hmm i think its funny you say girls fall for the overly thoughtful and caring dude, cause from what ive seen girls always go for *******s. i have a sister and have met most of her boyfriends, she'll go out with a nice guys.. for a few days... before she dumps him for some worthless *******, with no job or manners, who will never be able to support her or help her take care of the kid she has from yet another *******.
Shaggy Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 Because they can actually hold a conversation about something else than football? Because they don't think they are the center of the universe? Because they don't constantly make remarks about the breasts and / or ass of whatever girl walks by? Because they can think of other ways to spend their time other than strip clubs and getting drunk in bars? I must admit, I am shocked that some girls are interested in such guys. most girls, at least from what ive seen, go for these kinds of guys
Lizzie60 Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 it's been my experience that these guys are fake and usually break hearts. I would say that it is quite the opposite actually, most girls will fall for the bad guys or even fight in high school for the bad boy... Both nice guys and bad guys can break hearts... but I would think that the nice guys do less 'damage' in the process.
McFadden Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 If they are like a brooding artist and are skinny and have about chin length hair and are depressed about the world and the fact that they live in a loft and stuff then its because its hot otherwise I don't think anyone cares.
FormerNiceGuy Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 why do girls fall for the overly thoughtful and caring dude They don't. They can smell if a guy is trying to buy their affection. For the ones that are genuine, a girl will fall for them. But a lot of "those" guys are acting nice, and they're the same ones who later turn around and complain that women like jerks and not nice guys. Contrary to popular belief, it's not being "overly thoughtful" and "overly caring" that get women. I've seen enough men like that who get nothing. No. It's just being yourself, having respect for her and having respect for YOURSELF.That's all you need. Most of these "nice guys" don't respect themselves or let others disrespect them. Most of these "jerks" disrespect others. But when you respect YOURSELF and HER, then you'll get the women.
sofakingmad Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 nice & sensitive guy goes home alone... and genuine guys too. agreed. i know cause i was told i was told i'm all of those things by several women. and haven't heard from them since...
halfarock Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 Telling someone that they are nice is condescending.
Pyro Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 it's been my experience that these guys are fake and usually break hearts. It varies greatly. You have the guys who really are OVERLY thoughtful and caring and they turn out to be the doormat type of guy. You have the guys who really are thoughtful and caring, which more than likely is a keeper. Then you have the guys who pretend or just say that they are thoughtful and caring but are really not because they just want to get into the womens pants, so they will say what she wants to hear, as opposed to the truth.
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