knaveman Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 Several months ago, an ex gf of mine got in contact with me throught myspace. We hung out on St. Patricks day and needless to say I was DRUNK and made an ass of myself as I am prone to do when I drink the bar. Anyway, I haven't talked to her much since, only a couple of times, but lately I have been thinking about her a lot. Keep in mind, this woman destroyed me when we broke up and it took me several years to rebuild. Anyway, I have been thinking and even dreaming about her lately. We were supposed to go hang out again sometime, even after the ass making, but she is busy and I'm lazy. Should I call her to hang out (and me not get obliterated) or am I just lonely? I've been single for almost two years now. Really single. I think I'm just lonely. Or, do I need more closure? Or, should I just get a twelve pack and play some video games like I normally do when I'm lonely. Maybe I just needed to vent. Who knows.
Author knaveman Posted July 20, 2007 Author Posted July 20, 2007 That's what I always thought. This one has always been different however. I guess I shouldn't break rules for anyone. Ex's are ex's for a reason.
Fun2BMe Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 I don't thinki any harm will come out of hanging out with her. You are lonely and she is someone you can spend time with. Either you'll get back together, or else spend some good time together. I don't see the harm since many years have passed since the breakup, unless you're still in love and have a lot of expectations, which I don't think is the case. Just give her a call and see if she wants to get together.
Tyra Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 I think that you should call her. She can either say yes or no. You know what I mean? But if you two hang out, don't have your expectations high, because her feelings for you probably is gone. Think about it.
LoveLace Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 I don't see harm in hanging out as friends after years have passed; just think about if there is a possibility that you could fall for her again and feel burned again, ask yourself if you would be able to leave it at the platonic level (providing this is what she insisted on). But if you are lonely and could use some quality time with someone you are comfortable with, that might be good for you. However maybe just to clear the air, you should ask her what her intentions are, if any, that way you'll know how to treat the situation.
Author knaveman Posted July 21, 2007 Author Posted July 21, 2007 Thanks everyone. I'm going to hang out with some other people this weekend but if by next weekend I am still wanting to talk to her I will give her a call.
Author knaveman Posted July 27, 2007 Author Posted July 27, 2007 So, a week has passed and I'm still lonely. Looks like I'll be hanging out with the ex this weekend. She wants me to come help her build a deck. At least I'll get a good tan.
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