Peruvian Rose Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 I Miss Him, But He Is No Good For Me. I Left My Husband Because After 15 Years Of Marriage 10 Excellent Years And 5 Years Of No Intimacy. I Met This Guy 10 Years Younger Than Me , Even Do He Is Cute And He Knows It.I Am Also Gorgeous And Very Fit People And Friends Says That We Look Good Together. But There Is A Big Problem He Is Lazy Even Do He Does Not Accept This, He Changes Jobs Basically I Know Him For 1 1/2 Year He Has Not Keep A Job Longer Than A Month Then It Goes By Months Without Work. He Says If I Love Him I Should Not Mind Because I Have A Great Job, But Then Again He Cooks, Cleans And Is An Excellent Lover But I Think If He Really Loves Me He Should Do Something He Says That He Wants An Easy Job But He Has No Luck. Now My Ex Husband Wants Me Back Our 7 Year Old Is Begging Me To Do It He Offers Me A Better Life. What Do U Think I Should Do I Will Miss This Guy Even Do I Know He Is Bringing Me Down I Already Have Debts Which Are Now Under Control Since I Let Him Go. Please Help I Know I Deserve Everything That Happened To Me FOR Leaving My Ex Which Was And Is Always A Real Man To His Responsibilities, Even After All Of This We Helped Each Other.... Please Give Me Your Honest Advise...........
norajane Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 Well, it sounds like you would be unhappy with either man...a deadbeat, or a man with whom you have no intimacy. Why not try living on your own for a while with your child? If you have a great job, and I imagine you get some child support from your ex husband, then you can mange on your own. I think you need to be without a man in order to see that you don't NEED a man in your life in order to be happy or to survive. Once you see that, then you can choose a man that you WANT in your life, whether it be Mr. Lazy, Mr. NoSex, or someone who might give you passion, intimacy, and be responsible financially.
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