Mandy5 Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 Soo my ex boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me nearly a month ago.. We still talked after we broke in hopes that we would get back together..but last Weds he decided to tell me to move on and get over him, and that he doesn't think we will get back together. So he said it would be best if we dont talk or see eachother for a while.. Soo its been a week of no contact and its been the hardest week of my life!...it Seems to be getting a bit easier, but today has been the worst day..i feel so lonely, and i just want him to want to talk to me. Ive been trying to keep busy, and i feel fine when im out doing stuff, but as soon as i get home and its time to go to bed, i can't stop thinking about him! It wont go away! I always come on this site and it helps hearing other peoples stories!..i just hope one day we wil get to talk again, cuz i miss him so much.
selena_cat Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 I am, its only been two weeks for me,you can do it!!!
Author Mandy5 Posted July 20, 2007 Author Posted July 20, 2007 i just hope it starts to get easier soon..im just constantly thinking about what he is doing..and if he is missing me too...
pineapple2007 Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 Hi mandy. I am going through the same thing. I am ok when I am out and doing stuff. but as soon as I get home it comes back. I just want to be by his side again. It was worse though because on Tuesday we had our LAST and VERY LAST meeting. It is so hard knowing that he is going through his own pain alone. I keep thinking about what he is thinking and getting angry, sad, happy at times... i am so up and down. It is there when i go to sleep, and worst of all it is in my face when I wake up. even if I use the wash room in the middle of the night.. the thoughts wait for me. And the other thing is I have hopes he will call me again. I know that is so messed. and i could very well be getting my hopes up. but for some reason I feel he might (only because my ex before this one called me after a year wanting me back)......hoping is the worse because it doesnt let u move on at all.
Author Mandy5 Posted July 21, 2007 Author Posted July 21, 2007 thats crazy i feel the same way, i just hope one day he will want to call me..and want me back..bu ti know i can't wait around for him because who knows if he will acctually call.. He did say the last time we talked..that we will talk eventually we just need time to get over eachother.. i dont want to though..but i know i have to. I just miss spending time wtih him...and it sucks. I hope with time it wil get easier..i just hope one day we can be together again, but i guess i shoudl'nt get my hopes up too much. It just sucks when you think you find the perfect guy, one day they just change their mind and don't want to be with you anymore, so hard:( I think we can get through this though!..this site really helps hearing that others are going through the same thing:)..i think we can get through it its just going to take some time..which is hard:(
marac43 Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 Hi Mandy, From my own experiece, what's happening with you right now sucks... When you are dwelling every second it makes life impossible. I would say being here on this sight helps alot. Also if possible make a new friend. It can be a same gender friend, but get to know someone new. And in this new friendship try not to only talk about the past. You can get the story over with but dont carry on every day. So basically get your woes out here. And try to have a positve outlook while with your friend. I actually think that we have to trick ourselves back into having a good time doing anything. Good luck
SpongeGirl Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 Hi, this is my first post. My relationship has finally ended but he's all i've got so not sure about the whole "no contact" thing. He said he loves me but maybe he's not in love with me anymore. The last week has been very messed up emotionally but when I next see him I'm going to try my best to just act friendly, it sounds pathetic but he really is (was?) my best friend
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