TjtSingleone24 Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 what do you do when you are a woman that just only likes men for friends but you are not interested in women at all? I have been this way all my life. I tried to give a guy a chance and I did get married but it didn't work and I have two kids. When we went to marriage counseling, he told the counselor that sometimes he forgets that I am his wife because I am so much like a guy. Late night farting contests, I love the man show, I just recently learned that women don't have to look like hookers when they go out on the town at night so I learned to tone that look down a bit, I wrestle, box, I dip tobacco and I love cigarettes with a nice cold beer, hate chick flicks and any movie with love in it, i hate flowers and jewelry unless its cheap costume crap (because I always lose my jewelry!) and cuddling sucks soooo bad. Problem is, alot of guys think I'm cute but I just don't like them enough to do anything other than have sex with them. I only have sex because it feels good and if it doesn't I just make up some kind of excuse for why he or I have to go and then I go tell everyone at work the next day (i'm working on that keep it quiet part; i've had more than a few guys mad at me because I said that their performance was not up to par) Whenever my kids ask when am I going to get married again, I just laugh really hard and change the subject.... so is this okay or am i mad to feel bad about how i am because I am in a world surrounded by a bunch of clucking hens desperate to have love in their lives? Are their more women like me out there or am I just a minority?
Curmudgeon Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 Are their more women like me out there or am I just a minority? ...it's the latter, although I'm sure you're not alone. My concern would be the attitudes your children pick up on. What a shame!!
McFadden Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 what do you do when you are a woman that just only likes men for friends but you are not interested in women at all? I have been this way all my life. I tried to give a guy a chance and I did get married but it didn't work and I have two kids. When we went to marriage counseling, he told the counselor that sometimes he forgets that I am his wife because I am so much like a guy. Late night farting contests, I love the man show, I just recently learned that women don't have to look like hookers when they go out on the town at night so I learned to tone that look down a bit, I wrestle, box, I dip tobacco and I love cigarettes with a nice cold beer, hate chick flicks and any movie with love in it, i hate flowers and jewelry unless its cheap costume crap (because I always lose my jewelry!) and cuddling sucks soooo bad. Problem is, alot of guys think I'm cute but I just don't like them enough to do anything other than have sex with them. I only have sex because it feels good and if it doesn't I just make up some kind of excuse for why he or I have to go and then I go tell everyone at work the next day (i'm working on that keep it quiet part; i've had more than a few guys mad at me because I said that their performance was not up to par) Whenever my kids ask when am I going to get married again, I just laugh really hard and change the subject.... so is this okay or am i mad to feel bad about how i am because I am in a world surrounded by a bunch of clucking hens desperate to have love in their lives? Are their more women like me out there or am I just a minority? I am similar, but change some of the details (tobbaco to marijuana, wrestling to skating ect) and you are mad to feel bad about how you are, but its mean to tell people at work that anything private about other people and you should stop doing that or you will become disliked haha. I think as long as your children don't know the details of your sex life, and you don't project a negative attitude about love onto them its not a problem, a lot of children have single or divorced parents so you don't have to get married because of them.
Lean On Me Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 No cuddling? Well, that sucks. May I ask you some questions? Were you hurt really bad by men, and now think all men suck? Do you think being like them will help you feel better about it all? I'm here to help, not to hurt you, hun. If you don't feel like answering me, I will understand.
bish Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 what do you do when you are a woman that just only likes men for friends but you are not interested in women at all? You get a dildo and stay home alot.
Lean On Me Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 You get a dildo and stay home alot. Yeah, but what about the closeness?
Sweet Chestnut Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 what do you do when you are a woman that just only likes men for friends but you are not interested in women at all? I have been this way all my life. I tried to give a guy a chance and I did get married but it didn't work and I have two kids. When we went to marriage counseling, he told the counselor that sometimes he forgets that I am his wife because I am so much like a guy. Late night farting contests, I love the man show, I just recently learned that women don't have to look like hookers when they go out on the town at night so I learned to tone that look down a bit, I wrestle, box, I dip tobacco and I love cigarettes with a nice cold beer, hate chick flicks and any movie with love in it, i hate flowers and jewelry unless its cheap costume crap (because I always lose my jewelry!) and cuddling sucks soooo bad. Problem is, alot of guys think I'm cute but I just don't like them enough to do anything other than have sex with them. I only have sex because it feels good and if it doesn't I just make up some kind of excuse for why he or I have to go and then I go tell everyone at work the next day (i'm working on that keep it quiet part; i've had more than a few guys mad at me because I said that their performance was not up to par) Whenever my kids ask when am I going to get married again, I just laugh really hard and change the subject.... so is this okay or am i mad to feel bad about how i am because I am in a world surrounded by a bunch of clucking hens desperate to have love in their lives? Are their more women like me out there or am I just a minority? I think you are cool. You are as you are you like it that way and thats the whats count. Doesnt matter if you are unique or one of a group. its all ok. You sound like if you had a greate time and why the need to look and be like the standard pack?
Sweet Chestnut Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 Yeah, but what about the closeness? Yeah, what about it?
Lean On Me Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 Yeah, what about it? A play toy can only do so much for ya.
Sweet Chestnut Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 TRUE. BUT WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? get yourself an account, by paying for it, cause i seriously need to talk. and now.
Yamaha Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 If you don't like men or women then you must be checking other in the box for sex (male/female).
Lean On Me Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 If you don't like men or women then you must be checking other in the box for sex (male/female). Oh, do behave. lol
McFadden Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I don't think she is gay I think at the moment she has not met that special guy who appreciates her unusual way of being. Its discouraging because there are a lot of people who just aren't compatable. Or, if you don't mind not having love in your life then there's not really a problem.
Lean On Me Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I don't think she is gay I think at the moment she has not met that special guy who appreciates her unusual way of being. Its discouraging because there are a lot of people who just aren't compatable. Or, if you don't mind not having love in your life then there's not really a problem. I thought all people want and need to be loved, but I guess that might not be true.
Sweet Chestnut Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 what are you all talking about being gay and not having met the rigth guy?? you cant live without your standard boxes cant you? everybody got to fit one of them! No She isnt lesbian she dont like girl and she like hanging around with men, perfectly good, so thats not the problem and she had a good marriage, and a good time with her husband, just she dont like specialy being married to them. She dont like men and she dont like women, but in fact she like having sex with men she just does it the men way. If a guy was acting as she does with a woman, you will say he is a regular guy. She does it with men, so she must be a regular woman. Any objection?
McFadden Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I thought all people want and need to be loved, but I guess that might not be true. I think everyone needs to be loved by someone (friends, family, ect) but some people can be happy without being in romantic relationships. I always found it odd because I don't think I can be completely happy like that, but some people are. Its more common for men than women so I think thats why this is raising an eyebrow.
bish Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 Yeah, but what about the closeness? Well if she doesn't like men or women, she's just gonna have to sacrifice the closeness.
Turquoise Waters Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 Well if she doesn't like men or women, she's just gonna have to sacrifice the closeness. Or get serious with her strap-on.
Lean On Me Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I think everyone needs to be loved by someone (friends, family, ect) but some people can be happy without being in romantic relationships. I always found it odd because I don't think I can be completely happy like that, but some people are. Its more common for men than women so I think thats why this is raising an eyebrow. I'm very romantic, and a very loving person. I don't think I would be 100% happy that way either. I guess like anyone else.. I can live w/o it, if I had to.
Lean On Me Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 Well if she doesn't like men or women, she's just gonna have to sacrifice the closeness. Ok, ok..don't bite my head off.
lonelybird Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 because I am in a world surrounded by a bunch of clucking hens desperate to have love in their lives? ? probably true
Hestia Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 what do you do when you are a woman that just only likes men for friends but you are not interested in women at all? I have been this way all my life. I tried to give a guy a chance and I did get married but it didn't work and I have two kids. When we went to marriage counseling, he told the counselor that sometimes he forgets that I am his wife because I am so much like a guy. Late night farting contests, I love the man show, I just recently learned that women don't have to look like hookers when they go out on the town at night so I learned to tone that look down a bit, I wrestle, box, I dip tobacco and I love cigarettes with a nice cold beer, hate chick flicks and any movie with love in it, i hate flowers and jewelry unless its cheap costume crap (because I always lose my jewelry!) and cuddling sucks soooo bad. Problem is, alot of guys think I'm cute but I just don't like them enough to do anything other than have sex with them. I only have sex because it feels good and if it doesn't I just make up some kind of excuse for why he or I have to go and then I go tell everyone at work the next day (i'm working on that keep it quiet part; i've had more than a few guys mad at me because I said that their performance was not up to par) Whenever my kids ask when am I going to get married again, I just laugh really hard and change the subject.... so is this okay or am i mad to feel bad about how i am because I am in a world surrounded by a bunch of clucking hens desperate to have love in their lives? Are their more women like me out there or am I just a minority? You are my absolute hero! Sorry but i just had to say that.
Lizzie60 Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 If you don't like men or women then you must be checking other in the box for sex (male/female). In those boxes, I usually put SVP (which is PLS) in French...
Lizzie60 Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 what do you do when you are a woman that just only likes men for friends but you are not interested in women at all? I have been this way all my life. I tried to give a guy a chance and I did get married but it didn't work and I have two kids. When we went to marriage counseling, he told the counselor that sometimes he forgets that I am his wife because I am so much like a guy. Late night farting contests, I love the man show, I just recently learned that women don't have to look like hookers when they go out on the town at night so I learned to tone that look down a bit, I wrestle, box, I dip tobacco and I love cigarettes with a nice cold beer, hate chick flicks and any movie with love in it, i hate flowers and jewelry unless its cheap costume crap (because I always lose my jewelry!) and cuddling sucks soooo bad. Problem is, alot of guys think I'm cute but I just don't like them enough to do anything other than have sex with them. I only have sex because it feels good and if it doesn't I just make up some kind of excuse for why he or I have to go and then I go tell everyone at work the next day (i'm working on that keep it quiet part; i've had more than a few guys mad at me because I said that their performance was not up to par) Whenever my kids ask when am I going to get married again, I just laugh really hard and change the subject.... so is this okay or am i mad to feel bad about how i am because I am in a world surrounded by a bunch of clucking hens desperate to have love in their lives? Are their more women like me out there or am I just a minority? In some areas... not all. I rather be in a conversation with men than women... I hate to talk about the house, the kids, the last fashion...etc. but not with the cigarettes, wrestling, etc... I am more feminine. I love a cold beer... I am not high maintenance. I don't like expensive jewelry... but I love flowers. I, too, only have sex cause it feels good and it gives me a lot of financial satisfaction ... I don't want anyone in my life... but I don't kiss and tell...that's a big NO-NO for me.. I love my life...
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