dreamer6615 Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 I just want to say that I used to be a member on this forum 4 years ago and now I'm back, because I desperately need help. I just want to start by saying that I've been in quite a few relationships and never really knew what love was until I landed mine, 4 years ago, after a bitter break-up with an ex. We had a wonderful 4 years together, up until I woke up on the night of the 15th and caught my mate on the internet chatting with someone. This is when my mate had confessed another love. Now, we have come this far and am willing to forgive, but I have a feeling that the love for me is gone and I am clinging on in vain. My heart aches and I feel that my insides have been ripped out. My world has been turned upside down and I don't know which way is up. My mate claims that there won't be anything between them anymore and that it was just an internet fantasy. Then a day goes by and then I am told that the love is gone and that maybe we should part ways. I really need to know what I should do. I'm hurt, I'm sick - I'm breathing, but not living - I am in sorrow and can't seem to stand on my own two feet. I desperately need help. The pain is unbearable and I wish I were dead to relieve me of this despair.:( Please help me...
Aliddy Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 Hi, I have read your post, when did this happen ? 15th July ? and was it him that said " the love had gone " to you .. or did you say it to him ? Has he ever met this person ? As the internet, is a place fell of deceit and people can portray something they are not very easily.....
sao2 Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 Cry, get it out. Be angry with your mate, be angry with the world, heck I was angry with God. Really, be mad. It is still so so soon you shouldn't expect to be over it. Don't mourn your mate's love lost, you never had it, mourn your love wasted on your mate. Real love perseveres even when you don't feel like it.
SpongeGirl Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 I know how low you feel. My bf said he's probably not in love with me etc if you or anyone else wants to talk min private contact mw. I feel like crawling into bed and never leaving again
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