Jump to content

Does it make sense for two females who are friends to be on the same dating site?????

DateAnalyzer

By DateAnalyzer
in Dating

 Share
While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

DateAnalyzer Established Member

DateAnalyzer

Posted
Posted

Oh I cannot believe this, I was just slowly getting over my rejection last week and I was searching for a new girl. so I put an ad on craiglist and received a nice response and I was so ready to make a good impression by sending back a very pleasant email. So after she gets the email, she replies back and says-"I know who you are and you know my girlfriend" her girlfriend is the one I went on a date with last thursday. why in the hell would two girls browse the same site looking for a guy??

 

 

I'm OUTDONE

Star Gazer Established Member

Star Gazer

Posted
Posted

Your disapproval with two friends looking at the same site is ludicrous. Are you honestly suggesting that females divvy up what dateing sites they're going to use? "Hey TBF, you get Match, and I get eHarmony, and Allina, she'll get Chemistry, and Melody, you'll get Yahoo personals..." :lmao: Next thing I know you'll suggest two friends can go to the same bar, same restaurant, join the same rec team...

 

Stop, please, you're too far behind as it is.

 

Also, Craigslist isn't really a "dating" site. Yes, that function is there...but that's not it's primary purpose. If you're interested in dating sites, use actual dating sites, not bulletin boards.

  • Author
DateAnalyzer Established Member

DateAnalyzer

Posted
  • Author
Posted
Your disapproval with two friends looking at the same site is ludicrous. Are you honestly suggesting that females divvy up what dateing sites they're going to use? "Hey TBF, you get Match, and I get eHarmony, and Allina, she'll get Chemistry, and Melody, you'll get Yahoo personals..." :lmao: Next thing I know you'll suggest two friends can go to the same bar, same restaurant, join the same rec team...

 

Stop, please, you're too far behind as it is.

 

Also, Craigslist isn't really a "dating" site. Yes, that function is there...but that's not it's primary purpose. If you're interested in dating sites, use actual dating sites, not bulletin boards.

 

 

I know but I'm so pissed right now because that was my most creative ad which got me a nice reply and it turns out to be the girlfriend of a girl who already rejected me. I just can;t win for nothing

sofakingmad Established Member

sofakingmad

Posted
Posted

who cares if they're both on the same site. are you going out with her or not?

Krytellan Established Member

Krytellan

Posted
Posted

Yes, I fear you cannot establish online dating rules. Were you just racking your brain for something to post about today?

Trialbyfire Established Member

Trialbyfire

Posted
Posted
Your disapproval with two friends looking at the same site is ludicrous. Are you honestly suggesting that females divvy up what dateing sites they're going to use? "Hey TBF, you get Match, and I get eHarmony, and Allina, she'll get Chemistry, and Melody, you'll get Yahoo personals..." :lmao: Next thing I know you'll suggest two friends can go to the same bar, same restaurant, join the same rec team...

 

Stop, please, you're too far behind as it is.

 

Also, Craigslist isn't really a "dating" site. Yes, that function is there...but that's not it's primary purpose. If you're interested in dating sites, use actual dating sites, not bulletin boards.

But I want eHarmony too. Can't we play together for once? Pretty please? I'll send you a photospread for Beckham if you let me...

  • Author
DateAnalyzer Established Member

DateAnalyzer

Posted
  • Author
Posted
who cares if they're both on the same site. are you going out with her or not?

 

 

she may not be interested if her friend rejected me. I was surprised she even emailed me back if that was the case

IWalkAlone Established Member

IWalkAlone

Posted
Posted

Maybe she'll like you better.

Maybe you'll like her better.

  • Author
DateAnalyzer Established Member

DateAnalyzer

Posted
  • Author
Posted
Maybe she'll like you better.

Maybe you'll like her better.

 

 

but what should i do now? should i email her back and ask if she is interested? her email was

 

 

 

"Oh lawd I already know who you are and you know my girlfriend sonya"

sofakingmad Established Member

sofakingmad

Posted
Posted
but what should i do now? should i email her back and ask if she is interested? her email was

 

 

 

"Oh lawd I already know who you are and you know my girlfriend sonya"

 

you won't know if she's interested if you don't...

Touche Established Member

Touche

Posted
Posted
but what should i do now?

 

Forget emailing anyone back. You're not ready for public consumption yet. What I would do if I were you is get yourself squared away with the attitude and also with what bothers you physically. Concentrate on YOU for awhile. I'm serious. You may want to forget about dating right now.

 

Seriously, I say this for your own good. Get yourself together first.

  • Author
DateAnalyzer Established Member

DateAnalyzer

Posted
  • Author
Posted
Seriously, I say this for your own good. Get yourself together first.

 

 

Well if I was together what would i do?

Lizzie60 Established Member

Lizzie60

Posted
Posted

Gosh, you sound like a 13 yr old... really.

 

Are you saying that YOU only go on one site only???

 

What if one girl was on eHarmony, let's say...and the other one was on Match and you were browsing both sites... and sending a message to this other girl...she would still say she knows you...

 

geezzz It's a free world... I don't believe there are still guys like you out there...no wonder you don't date anyone... :laugh:

sofakingmad Established Member

sofakingmad

Posted
Posted
Well if I was together what would i do?

 

i can't believe you asked that but if you were together you would have already emailed the new girl...

  • Author
DateAnalyzer Established Member

DateAnalyzer

Posted
  • Author
Posted
i can't believe you asked that but if you were together you would have already emailed the new girl...

 

No I would have not emailed the new girl because I would have been trying to get to know her, i owuld have slowed my search up a bit and just browsed, not post ads

  • Author
DateAnalyzer Established Member

DateAnalyzer

Posted
  • Author
Posted
Gosh, you sound like a 13 yr old... really.

 

Are you saying that YOU only go on one site only???

 

What if one girl was on eHarmony, let's say...and the other one was on Match and you were browsing both sites... and sending a message to this other girl...she would still say she knows you...

 

geezzz It's a free world... I don't believe there are still guys like you out there...no wonder you don't date anyone... :laugh:

 

 

Well I go to multiple sites but i know if me and a male friend was to both go on the same site, chances are we would be talking to the same girls and if i can prevent something like that why wouldn;t I?

Touche Established Member

Touche

Posted
Posted
Well if I was together what would i do?

 

Well, I agree with you about her emailing you back. If she had NO interest she would have just laughed about it with her g/f. So I'd proceed with her as if nothing happened with her friend. Just laugh that off and pursue her as you normally would with anyone. (Well maybe not the way you "normally" would...you need pointers..but that's another matter entirely!:laugh:)

 

You should let us help you with the correspondences. I'm serious.

sofakingmad Established Member

sofakingmad

Posted
Posted
No I would have not emailed the new girl because I would have been trying to get to know her, i owuld have slowed my search up a bit and just browsed, not post ads

 

you already emailed her and she emailed you back. it's your turn. ask her out or get to know her better or give her your cell. your call.

  • Author
DateAnalyzer Established Member

DateAnalyzer

Posted
  • Author
Posted
you already emailed her and she emailed you back. it's your turn. ask her out or get to know her better or give her your cell. your call.

 

 

Ok i just did that and I will see what happens

Turquoise Waters Established Member

Turquoise Waters

Posted
Posted
You're just not dating material right now. Well, maybe if the woman was deaf and blind. :laugh:.

 

Gee, what a nice, polite comment. No rudeness there at all. Nope. Not a bit.

 Share
Go to topic listing
×
×
  • Create New...