CrossMyHeart Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 Hello. My boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me because we fought too much. We fought quite often, really; everything was a battle. Friends, family, money, each other, everything. So one night after an intense argument, he told me he wanted a break for about a week. So I decided to wait it out and last night, I got a call from him telling me "It's not working out." and we talked about it, and he said he needed more time to himself and a week just wasn't going to cut it. Although he says he still loves me and has feelings for me, he just doesn't want to hurt me with the fighting. But, being the sweet man he is, told me we can still hang out and be friends. And maybe someday we can rekindle something. He is the most wonderful man in the world and I know there is still something there between us... I'm definitely not over him and I'm not going to give up on him. How do I prove to him we can be together without being at each other's throats every time we're together? I would love him back dearly, I really would. And any help would do. Thank you.
funkybassplayer Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 Can i be blunt, he does not want to be with you, all this i dont want you to be upset, reverse it. As for a friend? Forget it unless you want to live in pain. Best thing walk away. A relationship should be nice not hard work, and your not suited to each other.
LakesideDream Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 CrossMyHeart, This is why people "date" to find out if the two of you are compatible. Pretty obviously your "BF" came to the conclusion that the two of you were not compatible, and decided to back off on the realtionship. You have to choices, honor his wishes, or stalk him.
Turquoise Waters Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 I have to agree with Lakeside....not all relationships work out and end up in breaking up. That is just life, and everyone has been the one on the receiving end of a breakup, the one that did not want it. I also agree with the suggestion to not have contact with him for a while. It will be too tempting for you to want to kiss and be intimate, and it might happen, but then you are left with feeling hurt and used. The best thing you can do for yourself is accept that it wasn't meant to be with you two, and forget about him.
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