turtle32 Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 Ok i have posted on here a couple times but here is my story i have been dating this lady for 7 moinths ever thing has been good awesome really we both love each other but here the past couple weeks or 3 maybe she has been having issues about moving here and me having kids. She has never been married said she wanted to think about things and so the past couple weeks i have gave her her space and she still dont know. She live sin illinois and me in kentucky. But the past wek we have only talked by text and no phone and she yahoo me once. Now last weekend she had been not texting me and i didnt her for a day and a half then i just aske her if she just wanted me to get out of her life and make it easier cause it is hard to set here wondering if any minute the relationship is going to be over so i knew she had all the power so i sent her a text like i was kinda getting frustrated with this and left it at that so i felt like some of the power came to me well she text me back and said she missed me and wanted to see me soon , so she text me monday and tuesday and was talking about coming and seeing me and i was planning on taking her on a vacation for 5 days so today she has been kinda cold and sayes she cant find anyone to keep her dogs i am trying to make plans it is soon be thursday and she wont tell me anything just now she was suppose to call me when she got out of church and she sends me a text she is going to her friends house to watch a show and she will be home in an hour what is going on she knows i need to make plans is she playing games with me? if so im not doing that advice would help thanks.
mattea Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 did you hear from her? i think it's nice that she texted to let you know that she'd be delayed for a little bit because she was going to a friend's house, rather than just keeping you waiting and wondering. it sounds like you are anxious and i can see why, if she's pulled away and isn't being very communicative. being long distance that can be even harder. maybe she just was getting frustrated too with trying to make the plans and having trouble finding someone to care for her dogs? maybe the distance is getting to her? i think it would be good if she can work it out to come see you and you two can talk face to face. you need to find out what's worrying her for real and see if you can come to some resolution together about what will work for you both. i'm getting the feeling she's ready for the relationship to either move forward or for you to move on, and it's hard to figure out how to move things forward from long distance i suppose. but really you just need to see her and talk to her and find out what's going on and see if you two can work it out.
Author turtle32 Posted July 19, 2007 Author Posted July 19, 2007 well i just talked to her and she isnt coming said she is confused and is having doubts said she didnt know what was wrong but that something didnt feel right said it wasnt me i did nothing wrong she misssed me but that she was unclear. Said she needed to take a step back and slow down. Said she was getting burned out by travling. I said well i was going to make it easier and leave her alone. So we said our goodbyes and it is over. Im not going to contact her and leave her be . Should i do anything i dont think she knows what she wants but i guess if it is meant to be i will hear from her and if not it wasnt. What is your alls take on this what should i do?
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