Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 18, 2007 Author Posted July 18, 2007 They even have a dating site GEARED TOWARD BIG WOMEN called bbwdatefinder.com-lol Where is the dating site for FAT MEN???
laRubiaBonita Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 They even have a dating site GEARED TOWARD BIG WOMEN called bbwdatefinder.com-lol Where is the dating site for FAT MEN??? craigslist
underpants Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 Please no offense, but I have some creative ideas.... How about.... I am a rollar coaster, tall inclines, steep slopes, wide and dangerous curves...wanna go for a ride? Am I too bootylicious for you? Then give your height and weight. I could be your Mr. Big (sex in the city reference). I think you can find lots of ways to be funny and creative about yourself and that might intrigue someone to look further. You should however be honest about the stats so the ladies know before they meet IRL. You should maybe work on some communication skills and email a few times before just meeting so these potential ladies get an insight to you inner self and vice versa. This approach can also build up an attraction so these first dates might go surprizing better for you. Just a thought.
sofakingmad Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 question for the ladies: wouldn't you rather your partner be "heavier" than you? i've talked to some women friends about this and when i tell them how much i weigh (i'm thin) they say "omg you're taller than me and weigh less than me." i've had people not want to date me because of it. so DA being "overweight" could be to your advantage.
laRubiaBonita Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 question for the ladies: wouldn't you rather your partner be "heavier" than you? i've talked to some women friends about this and when i tell them how much i weigh (i'm thin) they say "omg you're taller than me and weigh less than me." i've had people not want to date me because of it. so DA being "overweight" could be to your advantage. true that! i have always thought the man should be bigger... it is a protective thing
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 18, 2007 Author Posted July 18, 2007 craigslist craiglist is where a fat man goes for safe adult fun, not dating. i forgot that
sofakingmad Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 true that! i have always thought the man should be bigger... it is a protective thing that sucks...lol
underpants Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 question for the ladies: wouldn't you rather your partner be "heavier" than you? i've talked to some women friends about this and when i tell them how much i weigh (i'm thin) they say "omg you're taller than me and weigh less than me." i've had people not want to date me because of it. so DA being "overweight" could be to your advantage. I don't think I have ever had this problem but I am tiny and weigh a little more then a feather. I did once date (sort of) a guy who was really big chested and armed but had tiny long legs. His butt was smaller then mine.....I didn't like that, although he loved my booty. Funny.
sofakingmad Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 I don't think I have ever had this problem but I am tiny and weigh a little more then a feather. I did once date (sort of) a guy who was really big chested and armed but had tiny long legs. His butt was smaller then mine.....I didn't like that, although he loved my booty. Funny. if you are tiny and a featherweight then you are the exception rather than the rule.
laRubiaBonita Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 that sucks...lol but my bf now is a few inches shorter than i am... i think we weigh about the same, he maybe a little bit more.... but i actually do not reallt think of it when we are together... even when i am wearing my heels..... i think it just depends on the relationship... i feel more comfortable with him than any other guys i have been with.
sofakingmad Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 but my bf now is a few inches shorter than i am... i think we weigh about the same, he maybe a little bit more.... but i actually do not reallt think of it when we are together... even when i am wearing my heels..... i think it just depends on the relationship... i feel more comfortable with him than any other guys i have been with. and that's all that matters. how comfortable you are with each other. after you peel away how tall you are, how much you weigh, what you look like. DA you listening?
IfWishesWereHorses Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 Broad, as in shoulders??? I LOVE broad shoulders and a nice chest, MANY women do. hmm... How 'bout: DEEP and WIDE I saw a profile on a dating site that was one of the most ingenius I've ever seen. All my friends sent in comments to this guy. He made it like a job interview, Please only respond if you meet 10 of the following criteria, it was cocky but OH SO entertaining! Some of the criteria were physical, one was if you know who was president during the civil war, ect... but if you answered yes to number 8 then email me right away (think that was a nice A$$). So your number 8 could be an appreciation for a physical trait of your own. I think that they don't put it on their because its not such a BAD thing for a guy. I don't like teddy bear though, its not sexy at all IMO.
alphamale Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 I see couples all the time where one is heavy and the other skinny.
Star Gazer Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 In order to come up with the right description, you really need to describe yourself. Yes, we know that you describe yourself as fat/overweight, but how? Big like a linebacker (still has muscle under there/athletic), or more like a sumo wrestler? Are you tall? Short? Medium height? Are you a hard-fat or a soft-fat? Are you active or more sedentary? Is there a celebrity you resemble?
alphamale Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 In order to come up with the right description, you really need to describe yourself. Yes, we know that you describe yourself as fat/overweight, but how? Really all a man needs to do is offer his height and weight and most women can figure it out. WTF is "hard fat" versus "soft fat"??? Jesus H. Christ!
StayClose Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 "Hard fat" would be like a NFL linebacker or an Olympic powerlifter (guys who are more concened with lifting huge amounts of weight than winning bodybuilding competitions). These guys appear fat at first glance, but there's a lot of muscle under the layer of fat, so women feel very safe and protected around them, which makes them attractive.
Star Gazer Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 WTF is "hard fat" versus "soft fat"??? Jesus H. Christ! There's a huge difference between the two. A completely sedentary person who's 100 pounds overweight will have a very different "feel" than a very active person who's still 100 pounds overweight. Haven't you seen men with HUGE beer bellies that are still hard? Compare that to a guy who's fat all over, and very jiggly. Get what I mean?
Star Gazer Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 "Hard fat" would be like a NFL linebacker or an Olympic powerlifter (guys who are more concened with lifting huge amounts of weight than winning bodybuilding competitions). These guys appear fat at first glance, but there's a lot of muscle under the layer of fat, so women feel very safe and protected around them, which makes them attractive. Exactly!
alphamale Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 These guys appear fat at first glance, but there's a lot of muscle under the layer of fat, so women feel very safe and protected around them, which makes them attractive. so those NFL offensive linemen who weigh 350 lbs with their bellies hanging over the line of scrimmage really aren't fat?
StayClose Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 so those NFL offensive linemen who weigh 350 lbs with their bellies hanging over the line of scrimmage really aren't fat? They are fat, but when dating, women will like them better if they know the guys aren't just fat from drinking beer & watching TV all day. And according to Stargazer, they feel different, although I can't vouch for that personally.
alphamale Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 They are fat, but when dating, women will like them better if they know the guys aren't just fat from drinking beer & watching TV all day. I think it has to do more with their fat wallets than anything else
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 18, 2007 Author Posted July 18, 2007 They are fat, but when dating, women will like them better if they know the guys aren't just fat from drinking beer & watching TV all day. And according to Stargazer, they feel different, although I can't vouch for that personally. So they are called ACTIVELY FAT?-lol
alphamale Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 So they are called ACTIVELY FAT?-lol why don't you just say you're an "offensive lineman type"??
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 18, 2007 Author Posted July 18, 2007 why don't you just say you're an "offensive lineman type"?? But girls who don't watch football won't know what I mean when I say offensive lineman type
Trialbyfire Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 "Big 6'6", 300 lb [add gratuitous comments about self] man looking for a woman he can cuddle."
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