rockon Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 hey guys, I was in love with my (seperated/married) women friend. We were just friends but I couldn't handle it. She was going through a divorce but not finalized yet. I told her I had feelings for her a few times and eventually we would just fight about it. She would want to be friends and I would always want more She still has emotions for her husband which is good, I hope that works out but I can't remain friends with this feeling of love for her. Feels wrong and also hurts. anyways, i had to walk away from the friendship cause it was hurting me too badly. So this is day 1 and ummmmmm... i feel like **** but I have needs.. sexual and relationship needs that weren't being fullfilled with just friends. I could of stayed friends and tried to find other girls but my mind kept telling me "hang on, maybe she'll come around". if anyone has some support, it would be nice
Slippy72 Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 It's hard, but you have to walk away. If you've told her how you feel she obviously knows how much you like her and if she ever does come around, will let you know. Don't get your hopes up though, just try and put it all behind you, doing NC will probably help but if she does eventually contact you, be polite as she hasn't done that much wrong. May I ask how long this predicament has been going on for?
Yamaha Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 hey guys, I was in love with my (separated/married) women friend. We were just friends but I couldn't handle it. She was going through a divorce but not finalized yet. I told her I had feelings for her a few times and eventually we would just fight about it. She would want to be friends and I would always want more She still has emotions for her husband which is good, I hope that works out but I can't remain friends with this feeling of love for her. Feels wrong and also hurts. anyways, i had to walk away from the friendship cause it was hurting me too badly. So this is day 1 and ummmmmm... i feel like **** but I have needs.. sexual and relationship needs that weren't being fulfilled with just friends. I could of stayed friends and tried to find other girls but my mind kept telling me "hang on, maybe she'll come around". if anyone has some support, it would be nice Very healthy. You both will be better off being with someone who wants and desires you so you definitely did the right thing in moving on.
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