manders0724 Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 okay here goes... for some reason i get really upset and emotional when me and my SO fight. i cry because he says really hurtful things or doesnt say anything at all. i cant sleep knowing me and him arent okay like when we are fighting, so i always have to talk about it and make sure we are ok before i can sleep. my SO knows this. we have lived together for over a year. tonight we got into a fight about i dont even remember what (ugh) and i asked him to please just come talk to me and infront of my family and some friends he says: shut the **** up i dont want to talk to you leave me alone. in one sentence. and then i try to talk him and he sits there staring at the tv ignoring every word i say not even acknowledging that i am talking to him. this has happened alot and he says alot worse things but tonight it really got to me. i know i deserve to be treated with more respect than that. and he wont even appologise for his wrong doings...ever. im not saying im perfect i make mistakes too and ive said some rude things, but i always appologise and tell him i was wrong and i know it. why cant he do that for me? and why does he feel like he has to treat me this way? ugh i need advice
Tyra Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 okay here goes... for some reason i get really upset and emotional when me and my SO fight. i cry because he says really hurtful things or doesnt say anything at all. i cant sleep knowing me and him arent okay like when we are fighting, so i always have to talk about it and make sure we are ok before i can sleep. my SO knows this. we have lived together for over a year. tonight we got into a fight about i dont even remember what (ugh) and i asked him to please just come talk to me and infront of my family and some friends he says: shut the **** up i dont want to talk to you leave me alone. in one sentence. and then i try to talk him and he sits there staring at the tv ignoring every word i say not even acknowledging that i am talking to him. this has happened alot and he says alot worse things but tonight it really got to me. i know i deserve to be treated with more respect than that. and he wont even appologise for his wrong doings...ever. im not saying im perfect i make mistakes too and ive said some rude things, but i always appologise and tell him i was wrong and i know it. why cant he do that for me? and why does he feel like he has to treat me this way? ugh i need advice Maybe, you should sit him down and talk to him. When you two are in a good mood, then discuss all the issues you both have, so when you two do get into an argument, you'll know how to handle it.You know. And let him know that, he does not have to curse at you.
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