D&L Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 Oh my goodness, I am so confused. So me and my man have been on a break now for two weeks and I told him to call me when he's not ready for a break anymore. He called me a day afterwards and whatever but thats a different story. So I havent heard from him in awhile and I called him just to say hi and stuff and he never picked up. Three days later he calls me and by now Im pissed that it took him so long to call me and I basically asked him where we stand and if I should wait for him or not because if he doesnt want me to, just let me know so I can go about with my life(not that I really want to cause I care for him so much, but if thats what he ants). He tells me he wants to be with me and stuff and that he just needs to get through with some things but he wants me to wait for him. That same day, we ended up having sex. Now I know I maybe should not have because , well, we are supposed to be on a break, but God I missed him. But whatever, we had sex and he called me later on that night but I missed his call because I was in the shower. i called him back and he didnt pick up. the next day I called him twice, he didnt pick up. This happened on Friday, and now it is Tuesday night and I still havent heard from him. I am so confused and I just dont know what to think. What do you guys make of this.
Krytellan Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 He's in complete control. That's really about all there is to it. It's probably a pretty powerful feeling for him.
Pyro Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 I agree with Kry. He is playing you for a fool. He is telling you that he wants to be with you just to get sex from you. If he really wanted to be with you he would be trying harder and he would call you back. Its nothing but childish games. You are his puppet and you are being taken advantage of. Get out while you still can.
sexsexandmoresex Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 Here's the thing; If he is "going through some things" he should be man enough to explain them to you or at least give you a clue as to what he is going through. Obviously he has trust issues and he may just not be ready to commit in your relationship. You should move on and get on with your life because it is not reasonalbe for him to ask you to wait! Love waits for nobody...
jcster Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 I think the only "things he's going through" are all the available women that he can get. He'll be back when he runs out. Or not, if he can just have the sex without the commitment. You need to figure out what your boundaries are with this guy, and quick - because he trampled a couple already.
italianchica Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 In my opinion, he is exploring his options. You've got the classic yo-yo effect going on. He's placing you on the the back burner because you've already offered to wait for him. While to you, this shows him that you care about him - to him it screams - I'm your doormat. He doesn't respect you. The best thing you can do is stop the "talking" .. no more where is this relationships going, etc. Men pay attentions to your actions. You need to get busy with your life. Either he will take notice that you are moving on without him and shape up - or he will slip into the distance and disappear for good. Regardless, there are plenty of men out there who will treat you so much better.
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