DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Do you go to Church? Do you want kids? Do you like your job? What is your five year Plan? These questions makes my blood boil everytime i hear them-lol
chasinghappiness Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I can honestly say that I've NEVER asked those questions on a date that I'm just meeting someone. That would annoy me too. What ever happened to..."What do you like to do for fun?" and "What are some of your favorite movies?"....Yes, they may be shallow and carry no real depth....but, it's a first date....HAVE FUN!
nicki Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 How about: Do you want to have more kids? What's your favorite sexual position? So, you're a yoga teacher. Can you put your legs behind your head? (I get that one a lot, and always with a suggestive smile) My answer to tany of the above first date questions is, "CHECK, PLEASE!"
Mustang Sally Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Jeez. Sounds like a freaking JOB INTERVIEW. I agree. I thought dating was supposed to be FUN!
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 I can honestly say that I've NEVER asked those questions on a date that I'm just meeting someone. That would annoy me too. What ever happened to..."What do you like to do for fun?" and "What are some of your favorite movies?"....Yes, they may be shallow and carry no real depth....but, it's a first date....HAVE FUN! Out of the 4, the one i hate the most is "WHAT IS YOUR FIVE YEAR PLAN? Now if that doesn't sound like a job interview-lol
doiask42much Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I don't have four questions off the top of my head (I'm sure I'll think of some), but I hate it most when guys ask me what my favorite sexual position is, and it's happened WAY too often. I have no idea what to say or even why they would ask that.
nicki Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I know, why do some guys think it's okay to ask what our favorite sexual position is? I usually answer something like "I don't think you'll be finding out." Next time I'm asked, I'm thinking of saying something in return like "Well, it depends on how big your penis is. How big is it?"
doiask42much Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I can honestly say that I've NEVER asked those questions on a date that I'm just meeting someone. That would annoy me too. What ever happened to..."What do you like to do for fun?" and "What are some of your favorite movies?"....Yes, they may be shallow and carry no real depth....but, it's a first date....HAVE FUN! How about: Do you want to have more kids? What's your favorite sexual position? So, you're a yoga teacher. Can you put your legs behind your head? (I get that one a lot, and always with a suggestive smile) My answer to tany of the above first date questions is, "CHECK, PLEASE!" Ha, I was just one minute after you, Nicki!
doiask42much Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Oops, I don't know how to multiquote but it looks like I just did it by accident. Love the comebacks, Nicki. Will have to remember them for next time. If there's a next time (hopefully not).
nicki Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Whew, never asked a guy what his "five year plan" is. That seems very boring and stupid to ask. Heck, his five year plan might change simply because he just met me!
alphamale Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Why did your last relationship end?So what are your religious & political affiliations?Is it OK if I order the most expensive thing on the menu?Do you have any "social" diseases?
nicki Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Yeah, DoIask, hope it doesn't happen again....but it will, of course! Good list alpha. Hey, if we go out, can I order the lobster after you tell me about your STDs and we pray over the ending of your last relationship?
McFadden Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I guess if you must go the first date route it is important to find out about thier job, sexual orientation, religious and political affiliations and all of the deal breaker stuff. This is why I try to go the friends route first..basically know everything before deciding but finding out casually without annoying interviews.
laRubiaBonita Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Do you go to Church? Do you want kids? Do you like your job? What is your five year Plan? These questions makes my blood boil everytime i hear them-lol are you in your 30's or something? these sound like questions from someone looking to get hitched and have babies within 5 years......
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 are you in your 30's or something? these sound like questions from someone looking to get hitched and have babies within 5 years...... Yes i don;t care if i'm in my 30's i still don;t want to hear questions like that on a first date
Touche Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Yes i don;t care if i'm in my 30's i still don;t want to hear questions like that on a first date I agree with you. I also hated when people asked me right away what I did for a living. I NEVER asked that. It's as bad as asking what kind of car you drive. So transparent. Man, dating sure can suck. I feel for you.
alphamale Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Good list alpha. Hey, if we go out, can I order the lobster after you tell me about your STDs and we pray over the ending of your last relationship? No... are you in your 30's or something? these sound like questions from someone looking to get hitched and have babies within 5 years...... yea I forgot the questions about wanting kids and likeing kids and all that bull****. the women who already have kids never ask those questions.
laRubiaBonita Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 yea I forgot the questions about wanting kids and likeing kids and all that bull****. the women who already have kids never ask those questions. at least not until christmas time.....
shadowplay Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I don't have four questions off the top of my head (I'm sure I'll think of some), but I hate it most when guys ask me what my favorite sexual position is, and it's happened WAY too often. I have no idea what to say or even why they would ask that. Guys actually ask this??? My God, that's totally inappropriate. I'd slap a guy if he asked me that on the first date.
Lizzie60 Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 1) When was the last time you had sex? 2) Have you ever had a threesome? 3) When was your last STD check-up? 4) Why did your last relationship ended?
shadowplay Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 ^where are you girls meeting these guys??! i've never had a guy ask me anything of that sort on a date. that's disgusting!
alphamale Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 So...um, are those real?You're not into foreplay are you?Is it ok if my buddy joins in?How many dudes have you had? just joking around L60
Trialbyfire Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I don't mind any questions. If it's something I don't want to answer, I'll tell them "It's a little personal for a first date, don't you think?". At least it shows interest. I do expect that they will answer any questions I have.
doiask42much Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Guys actually ask this??? My God, that's totally inappropriate. I'd slap a guy if he asked me that on the first date. It is! And I should've! Another good one was, "What, you don't like Rome?" This was because his GIRLFRIEND (whom I didn't know about) just called and he told me that they were going to Rome together in a couple of weeks. I sure know how to pick 'em, huh? Or they know how to pick me?
Turquoise Waters Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I do admit I want to like to know what they do for a living, not because I want to know his income, I just find it interesting to know what people do for their jobs. It says a lot about what they are interested in. For example, a poetry professor is going to be different than an engineer who designs office furniture, both of which I've dated. It's fun to talk to them about their jobs and what their day entails. You learn a lot about a person.
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