CJ77 Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 me and my ex have been split up now for almost 2 mnths....we work together so we still are freindly..like we talk online, and make small talk at work....his mom also works with us....so recently his been acting very cold towards me..i know that he recently told another co worker about our breakup..he told the co worker that i was sweet, pretty , and really good person but that he wont go get me back bc to him it just isnt going to work....but yet their is a change in his behavior towards me.....so theres another guy that we work with that is the one who got us together and who my ex claims to be the reason for ruining our relationship since he told me how my ex was going out w/ his friends but yet telling me he had no time, that he is busy...so this other guy and i always talk but we are JUST friends, always were and never anything more...so last night my ex told my friend that his mom told him that everytime she walks by my work area she sees me and this guy talking and laughing and that she doesnt like it one bit....now i was really mad upon hearing that bc first off me and her son no longer date, he is the one that wanted the break up, and yet its ok for him to talk with the other girls at work!!! but yet theres a problem if i do it...i beeen thinking of picking up the phone and talking this out with my ex..i also have to wonder if hes just using his mom as an excuse and if its really him thats being bothered by this and not his mom....any thoughts????
tinktronik Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Thoughts ... don't concern yourself with what your EX or his mom are worried about . His choice was to not be with you and so he does not get to decide how you conduct yourself and neither does his Mom. Just ignore them and if it gets to be too much tell them exactly that. Your choices are none of their bussiness.
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