buzzie2 Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 So there is this guy who i suspected has had a secret crush on me for months. My suspicions were correct when i finally flirted back and he got a love sick look and then took off! My question is, why does it freak a guy out when a girl he's had a secret crush on finally starts to show an interest and flirts back, especially if he has no problem with the other ladies that flirt with him?
Road Rage Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Emotional involvement affects our ability to perform. You could probably walk on a four inch beam for fifty feet with no problem as long as it was a foot off the ground. However try that one thousand feet up on a calm day and see how you feel. I guess the bottom line is your attention matters to him and it is affecting his performance.
StayClose Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 My question is, why does it freak a guy out when a girl he's had a secret crush on finally starts to show an interest and flirts back, especially if he has no problem with the other ladies that flirt with him? The possibility of hooking up with you is frightening for some reason. He may be married or in a secret relatioinship. He may think you're too pretty for him, or that he's not good enough for you, and once you realize this, you'll break his heart.
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