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Thanks for the support I've received so far in this thread here.... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t123933/

 

We filed the divorce papers this morning, but unfortunately cannot get a court date until we both complete a 4-hour parenting class. The first available class was Aug. 1, so we both signed up for it. We should be able to get a court date by ~ Aug. 15th.

 

Help me get through this last month.

 

I keep telling my son that we are moving to Grandma's in a month. I am trying to remain as positive and strong as I can around him, but it's not easy.

 

The problem is my wife. She is constantly staying out all night at hotels. When she is home late at night she is talking to her new man on the phone. I have asked her to show a little common courtesy and compassion, and to just ease off a little for a month until I'm gone. She says she can do what she wants, and that it isn't fair to her to have to do that. Just today she received some lingerie in the mail delivered to our house. I'm being humiliated.

 

I also have no other choice, but to continue to take care of my son and hers. For instance, today her son had to go to school for a football fund raiser. I will need to pick him up at 7:30 PM.

 

She is still working ungodly hours, but has time to keep this affair going strong...which basically means all her time is away from her kids.

 

Meanwhile, I still need to keep working, took my last sick day today. If I work until Aug. 17th I can get a paid week of vacation. I'm planning on the 17th being my last day of work.

 

The leaving, I'm coming to grips with, but in the midst of all this BS, it is extremely difficult.

 

Help!

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