Should I call her again?

[Huntr777]

Hey all, let me set this one up for you…met a girl at the beach last week and she gave me her number. I called her earlier this week to set up a date, I mentioned about going to get ice cream one night this week, and she said she’d love to. I call her yesterday to see when we could meet. Well, the conversation started with just light talk about the beach weather, people we know down there, etc. Then she asked if I knew anything about cats…I asked why. She then starts telling me that she thinks her cat has pinworms, and wanted to know if it can it be transferred to humans…I told her to go to the vet and ask. Then she starts telling me more about the pinworms, what color they are and how she found them in the cat’s water dish. I told her to go to the vet and ask. Then she starts going into even more detail, and again I tell her to bring to the cat to the vet, as he would know more than I would. OK, so then she starts telling me about one of her best friends that died 11 years ago, and now they think the husband did it, and how she’s glad because she always thought he had something to do with it. At this point I just say she’s making it kinda difficult to ask her out for ice cream, and if this was her aim in the first place. She just laughed and said no, she’d love to but she’d have to bring her son with her (he’s 11 years old). We kind of left it loose about getting together.

 

So the question I have is should I call her again? I mean not for nothing, but I’m not sure about calling this girl again. Not because of the son but because of what she started telling me…I mean how many girls would want a guy to call them again if they started talking about their cat’s health problems and somebody dying? What does everybody think?

 

H777

[directx]

Alright,

so she is a little different. Weird even. We all are some way.

 

But you are not marrying her or making any commitment.

 

I mean, do you have anything better to do?

 

Give her a shot, what the hell.

[D&L]

You guys are just going out for some ice cream...thats it. Okay, wow, she likes to conversate about things that really dont mtter to you and thatmost people would rather not talk about...no reason to not call her again. Maybe to her, taking about her sick cat and dead people wasnt weird. You'll probably talk about something int he future and she'll probably be thinking, why are we talking about this. Call her!

[shadowplay]

I don't think this means she doesn't like you. It means she's a bit flakey/socially inept and was nervously rambling. She sounds like she could be either a little cracked or quirky in a good way. You'll never know unless you go out with her and get to know her better.

[T-town]

Maybe she was nervous so she was talking anything that came to her mind to keep the conversation going. Go out with her and if she is weird whatever it was just one date...you owe it to urself to give it a shot.