tymai Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 About a month before my boyfriend and I broke up, we went to his fathers birthday party. We all had a great time. We also got really drunk. The day after we break up, my boyfriend goes over to his cousins house and tells him about the break-up. His cousin told him that it was a good thing because I had been caught in the upstairs bedroom with one of his uncles at the birthday party. They had not wanted to tell him at the time, so they said, because they didn't want to hurt him??? WHAT? It's a complete lie!! They can't even name which uncle I supposedly was caught with! But now his whole family thinks I did this thing and my ex KNOWS that I didn't do this, but still won't set them straight. He says that it's a "non-issue" since we're not together now. I had a wonderful relationship with his parents and little sister and now they think I'm an bad person. I hate that. I have no clue what to do and it's bugging me!
Author tymai Posted July 16, 2007 Author Posted July 16, 2007 So I didn't realize that the rest of my story didn't get on the page... So yes, this is buggin me, but the other part is that he's found someone else. He's decided that she'd the "one" after only 2 and a half weeks. She's also only 18, which for some reason totally hurts. She's 8 years younger than I am! He's moving to the city where she's starting college next month so he can be close to her. First of all, he started dating her only 2 weeks after we broke off a four year relationship, and second he never wanted to even discuss marriage with me, and he's all of a sudden decided that this is the "one" that he's going to marry? What the HELL? He's also given up smoking, drinking, poker, and just about every vice he had. He said that being around her made him want to change. Even though she had asked him not to do those things around her, she didn't ask him to stop, he's just doing it because he thinks he'll be a better person for her without those vices. What was I? I'm hurt, I'm confused, my who world has been flipped upside down. And the one thing that I obsess over is what his parents think of me??? Ha! Maybe it's the only thing I think I can actually control, the rest seems to be completely out of my hands....
BlueEyedSarah Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 He dumped you so move on and forget him, he is not worth it if he wont clear your name if he knows you didn't sleep with that person.
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