timot_op32 Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 Hi all Actually wanna want to know how to date make a successful. So am asking you some questions related to dating: » What are the essentials of a lasting relationship? What kind of signs do girls give you when they're interested? How to tell if someone is interested in you? » Which signs are pointing out that relationship is going to develop in a long term love and friendship? Decided if you can get along with someone? » How to make yourself interesting, and compel people want to become involved with you? Please give me your suggestion. Do you recommend any book which gives dating tips? Thanks….
FormerNiceGuy Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I'm not going to bother answering all the questions, since they are beginner questions that you can find by searching in these forums. But I will answer one of your questions..[ The key to dating is to just be yourself but to put your best foot forward. But there is a fine line. Telling a chump to be himself is suicide because you're telling him to remain a chump. Instead, you should strive to become a real man complete with confidence, goals, and a real life..and THEN to be yourself As for the signs that women give you to indicate interest. Here is my advice. There are five factors you must know to tell if a girl is interested in you or not. The first factor is the lean. When you feel like you’ve developed enough rapport, slightly lean forward. But not too much. Just slightly and subtly while you’re talking. If the girl leans back, she’s not interested. If she leans forward, she’s into you. The second is how much she talks to you. Sometimes it’s best not to overanalyze. Sometimes it comes down to the basics. Are you the one who’s asking about her the most? Or is it her? It’s as simple as this. A girl who’s interested in you will keep talking to you or will ask questions about you. A girl who’s not interested in you doesn't give a damn about you. You'll find that it's you who's working harder on the conversation. But you have to discern the difference between an uninterested girl and a girl who’s shy. You’ll figure out the difference real quick The third is playful touching. A surefire way to tell if a girl’s interested in you or not is this…try playfully touching her. Don’t be sleezy. Don’t paw at her. Just make it quick, innocent and subtle. It could be as simple as jokingly poking her on the shoulder during a joke..or something like that. A girl who’s interested will playfully touch you back. A girl who’s not will tend to keep to themselves or will be disgusted by what you do. And it’s better to find out in the beginning. The fourth is the laugh. Sometimes you’ll say a joke..or anything..that really wasn’t that hilarious..but she’ll laugh a lot. It could be even something kind of dumb, but if the girl giggles she might be into you Ah, but the fifth is the best advice I can give you Forget reading females - you'll never be able to do it. Stop wondering, "Does she like me? She did this and she did that, that must mean this that must mean that' Do you like her? No? Then look at somebody else that you are interested in Yes? Then say “Hi” and ask for her name. If you don't do this, everything here is pointless. This is the first step to take. Focus on your interests, your desires, WHAT YOU WANT. Forget about anything else! YOU are here for yourself right? If someone will get hurt, YOU will be the one in pain, not your friend, your girl or that stranger on the corner! So do yourself a favor, literally and help yourself. If you want her, go for her! Go at her like you've never done before! Stop thinking, “Does she like me?" "Was that a sign that she liked me?" The truth is, you won’t ever know for sure unless you grab some balls and ask her out! No one could ever tell me whether she liked me or not. But the best way I found out was to grab some balls and ask her out. And I realized something. You WILL FIND out! And if you get rejected, YOU'LL KNOW. And if you don't get rejected, YOU'LL KNOW. As for a book, send me your email address...I'll send you an awesome book for free.
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