hithere Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 If you could magically fast forward time by ten years and had the opportunity to see your ex again, would you say yes to that chance? I think in 10 years all of us would be completely healed from our break-ups. So wouldn't you be curious to see whatever happened to your ex? If your ex ever found true love with another? Would you take guilty pleasure if you found they were alone and miserable? Say how you really feel.
Trialbyfire Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 No. I have no desire to ever see my ex again. I don't care enough to want to know if he's happy or sad.
mishy Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 i'm ususally over it in a year, so in 10 years i don't think i'd care either way. There is someone i have been thinkning about lately who i haven't seen in 11 years. i would really like to bump into him - more that i am curious as to whether he is still alive, as he was a bit self destructive. But we were good friends at one stage. Yeah i'd like to see him. I've actually tried to look him up in the phone book. Its only curiousity to see how he turned out as it was when we were in early 20s that i last saw him.
underpants Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 I have had this opportunity...a few times. (gosh, I am/was a slut). One of my formers is a great guy and after 10 years or now more, we are fond friends, nothing more. He called me a good egg, and I feel the same about him. We were just not compatible, although I would highly recommmend him. Another hated me forever, he still might a little. However, I saw him and we talked. I apolgized for not appreciating or communicating better back then. We laughed as I also knew the awesome lady he married (not a related friendship, just weird that they wound up together). She is a great person, and I said, maybe I got you ready for the right woman. On that we agreed. I spoke with an ex that cheated on me (the switch went off) after over 10 years. He was still so mad and angry and just down on ....life. He is married and has a baby and is doing great, but he is still just this ...angry, resentful and just an unhappy dude. Oh well, I guess I was glad the switch turned cold. And the final cherry on my revisits would be my high school ex that really treated me so very badly. I went to the local library to return and check out a new book and I saw him after ...forever. This dude was just really a bad boyfriend on every level. He was washing windows for a living and I just thought (from a personal bad thing that happened with us) ....yea, you need to be looking at glass for the rest of your life. I did not stop to say hello. Ahhh, whatever. The past is the past. I will pop up here and there and you deal how you deal. After 10 years regardless of the slings and arrows it shouldn't be too much to consider. Life goes on, Unders
Trimmer Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 We have children together. So as spouses we are split, but as parents we will remain "together" for the rest of our lives.
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