Vertex Posted July 15, 2007 Posted July 15, 2007 I am at a party with my gf of almost a year. We all get a little tipsy. My tolerance is low so I am much more drunk than the others. Everyone begins to leave. My gf just leaves me there at the party after everyone clears out. Am I justified in feeling like she just ditched me? Like she doesn't give a rip? Feeling very alienated/ignored/hurt. Justified? Or am I overreacting?
DaNziNgQuEeN1 Posted July 15, 2007 Posted July 15, 2007 Whaaaat? Why would she do that to you? Did you two have an argument or what? Have you asked her about it? I know I would be hurt too if my boyfriend left me at some party like that. If you haven't spoken to her about it, then DO talk to her and clear things up! Good luck.
Author Vertex Posted July 15, 2007 Author Posted July 15, 2007 No, no argument. People were leaving and I was a little tipsy, and I had expected my gf to like, you know, at least come to me and be like "Let's go" and help me up or something, but she totally just blew me off and left me there.
DaNziNgQuEeN1 Posted July 15, 2007 Posted July 15, 2007 Oh damn...that sucks! No but, seriously dude, I think you should talk to her about it.
jcster Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 If she just left without a goodbye that was pretty rude! But, where you a "little tipsy" or really drunk? I only ask this because I was in a situation similar to that, and didn't remember that they'd told me they were leaving and I'd refused the ride (yeah, I was that drunk!). Definitely talk to her - it might be that she was ticked off at you and you didn't pick up on it. It might be that she offered and then just left - she might have just been rude. There's no sense in getting mad until you know the facts.
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