AngryHeartache Posted July 15, 2007 Posted July 15, 2007 Me and the ex are on NC. Been doing it about a week and 2 days now. But the last time I sent him a message (unanswerd) I asked for my things back, that he has at his house. He ignored it. I phoned his house phone, and asked his mum to tell him. She said she would. Nothing. This was ages ago now...if he was going to send it he would have by now. I just don't get it. Why won't he? How hard is it to just send soemthings through the post? I know for a fact he could do it easily. He's just being an idiot. I am so angry and hurt right now I'm so so very tempted to phone him up and shout. But I know I shouldn't...I gotta do this NC thing for my own good. But it's so hard. Half of me wanna cry and beg for him back, the other half want to tear him to pieces. I hate this. First love too Any ideas what to do? I just want my things back
funkybassplayer Posted July 15, 2007 Posted July 15, 2007 Cause hes a prat. My ex has a new tent of mine which i may have to let go. If you can ask his mum to let you knowo when hes not there, and then go them? if it was me, and its nothing valuble, i would let it go, and carry on healing untill your at a time when you can go there get your stuff back and just walk away without a care. Main thing for you is to get better.
prism23 Posted July 15, 2007 Posted July 15, 2007 Get a friend to do it. Since seeing him right now would be hard, and you want your stuff, I'd get a close friend to just go to his house and get your stuff for you, so you don't have to deal with him.
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 Well, it's only been 9 days. That seems like an eternity to you, but really it's just a drop in the bucket. It took me way longer to get everything together to give back to my ex... about a month. I rounded stuff up and gave him one load but then I kept finding random things here and there, and finally after about a month I had it all and gave it to him all at once. About the NC- you're clearly not doing the whole NC thing if you're calling him, calling his mom, etc. You've made it clear that you want your stuff back. Now stop calling him and let him do it on his own time table.
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