confused_20 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I have been in contact with this guy for nearly 3 years now we met over the internet and although we both weren't looking for love on the internet we ended up both liking each other and we eventually fell in love with one another and were ready to take things further and meet up. I live in the UK and he lives in Canada and i feel that after all this time his feeling of love towards me is beginning to fade, unfortunately due to financial problems we were unable to meet one another and whilst last year he told me he developed very deep feelings of love for me, we were very much in love with one another but this year he has pointed out that he is looking to settle down with the one woman and maybe get engaged, he told me he has been introduced with other women too but that he still likes me. I really really like this guy in fact i know i love him but i know that he is beginning to look elsewhere. I really want to take things further with him but i don't know what to do! help me please! in what way can i make him more interested in me? am i being too available? we are in contact often with one another and at the very minimum one email per day and he is the only guy on my mind. Can you suggest what i could do to make him turn his attention to me? i'm really worried because i do really love him and i want him to feel the same way as i do i mean i know he likes me and i think the love is beginning to fade because of the long time gap we have had however in all this time we have managed to regularly keep in touch we e-mail, talk on MSN, talk on webcam and call each other which obviously means he is interested otherwise he wouldn't bother and i know the next logical step would be to meet up but until that time i wanna ask for any advice that would keep him interested in me or increase his interest in me?? i mean to be honest the idea of him getting engaged with another woman kills me because i think he is actively looking to settle down and at a time like this i realise just how much i love him because i am in a PANIC...please help!! many thanks.
Reckless Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 ....what way can i make him more interested in me? Be there, in the flesh in front of him. That should do it. There IS no other way. ....i know the next logical step is to meet up...he is actively looking to settle down He is wanting a real woman not a virtual one. If you cannot be the former the latter will have to accept that and cut the contact. Sorry, been there done that... R ps. The internet, god bless it has done many good things, but making believe that a cameral and a telephone line can replace a relationship is not one of them. Thus the need to form relationships with people within at most driving distances or be ready and able to relocate. Fast. pps. Do not relocate based on a virtual relationship. Virtual means nearly, but not quite, a virutal relationship is an imitation one and is only worth a dime translated into real life.
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