halfarock Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I agree with you 100% but how do you get this 'attitude'?!? I really don’t know. Maybe it just comes from past successes.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 I left the NEGATIVE MESSAGE everyone and guess what????????????? SHE RESPONDS!!!!!!!, typical women
alphamale Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 SHE RESPONDS!!!!!!!, typical women and what did she say? leave out the expletives
shadowplay Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 And???? What did she say!?!!! Don't leave us hanging, dude.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 That she was turned off I didn't want to go and eat, only to a Cafe.
alphamale Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 That she was turned off I didn't want to go and eat, only to a Cafe. thats bull**** man
Pyro Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 That she was turned off I didn't want to go and eat, only to a Cafe. Wow. She's a great catch. Seriously you are only killing brain cells by thinking about her.
shadowplay Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Why would she even bother with the date at all if she had already decided she didn't want you based on that?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 thats bull**** man Women are full of SH*T.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Why would she even bother with the date at all if she had already decided she didn't want you based on that? She said she just left a guy for being CHEAP and didn't want to go down that road again because he depended too much on her
Pyro Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 She said she just left a guy for being CHEAP and didn't want to go down that road again because he depended too much on her So she judged you based on where you went for the first date?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 So she judged you based on where you went for the first date? I guess I came off as cheap
Pyro Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I guess I came off as cheap She could have possibly been a gold digger. Whatever she may be its not worth it to dwell over her and get upset at women, not saying that you are but lots of guys after one or two bad experiences will start heading down the road of being bitter and being a woman hater. Not a good thing.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 She could have possibly been a gold digger. Whatever she may be its not worth it to dwell over her and get upset at women, not saying that you are but lots of guys after one or two bad experiences will start heading down the road of being bitter and being a woman hater. Not a good thing. Women, can't live with them, THE END
shadowplay Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I hope you feel better now. Seriously, don't you feel like an idiot (in a good way) for even letting this woman bring you down? She's clearly a fake, superficial b---. This just confirms that it's not always you, it's often the other person. Just keep truckin'.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 I hope you feel better now. Seriously, don't you feel like an idiot (in a good way) for even letting this woman bring you down? She's clearly a fake, superficial b---. This just confirms that it's not always you, it's often the other person. Just keep truckin'. I feel better now because it's CLOSURE to the situation. I feel a lot better than last night
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 my new philosophy WOMEN, Can't live with them, THE END
shadowplay Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Please don't generalize based on one bad apple. Ok, there are a lot of bad apples out there, but there are also some great women. You just need to sift through the bad stuff to get to them. I don't want to toot my own horn, but I think I'm a pretty decent woman. I'd never treat a guy the way this woman treated you. I hate fake/dishonest people. When I've turned a guy down, I've always tried my best to be gracious and honest with him. I hate playing games. I'm sure there are other women like me out there. You just need to find them.
halfarock Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Let me recap this whole situation. You are an overweight guy that hasn’t gotten past a first date in 7 years. So you go out with this woman who was turned off by you but continued the date, being nice to you, even complimenting you. That night you call and all you get is her voice mail which is too full for you to leave a message. You then get angry and begin plotting how you are going to get your revenge by sending her a nasty email. A whole bunch of people on LS then start offering you words of encouragement, not to get mad, not to give up. On Sunday you call and again you get nothing but her voice mail. So you get mad and send her a nasty message. She responds by telling you that she was turned off by where you took her too eat. An excuse, I’m sure that was designed not to attack you personally, directly. Now you want nothing more to do with women. Some guys would have been happy just to have her smile at them. As far as I can tell, this woman has been being nice to you and probably far more than you deserve. It’s like you are mad because she was nice to you. What being nice is leading you on? She could have just said, “Sorry but I don’t date fat, boring, vindictive losers.” But she chose to be nice to you. You are pathetic. I’m glad you no longer want to date women. I’m sure that they are all better off without you.
lino Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 I really don’t know. Maybe it just comes from past successes. Guess I'm screwed then Dateanalyzer, I think it was a mistake to leave the message & I think the reason she gave you isn't the truth.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 Let me recap this whole situation. You are an overweight guy that hasn’t gotten past a first date in 7 years. So you go out with this woman who was turned off by you but continued the date, being nice to you, even complimenting you. That night you call and all you get is her voice mail which is too full for you to leave a message. You then get angry and begin plotting how you are going to get your revenge by sending her a nasty email. A whole bunch of people on LS then start offering you words of encouragement, not to get mad, not to give up. On Sunday you call and again you get nothing but her voice mail. So you get mad and send her a nasty message. She responds by telling you that she was turned off by where you took her too eat. An excuse, I’m sure that was designed not to attack you personally, directly. Now you want nothing more to do with women. Some guys would have been happy just to have her smile at them. As far as I can tell, this woman has been being nice to you and probably far more than you deserve. It’s like you are mad because she was nice to you. What being nice is leading you on? She could have just said, “Sorry but I don’t date fat, boring, vindictive losers.” But she chose to be nice to you. You are pathetic. I’m glad you no longer want to date women. I’m sure that they are all better off without you. Pretty women are not supposed to SMILE and be NICE to overweight lonely men, you didn't know that?
shadowplay Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 DateAnalyzer, halfarock's post is unduly harsh, but I agree on second thought that she probably is giving you an excuse and the real reason was your weight. I don't want to make you feel bad, but it's better to face the truth than to hold a grudge against women based on a lie. Luckily your weight is something you have the power to control.
Mary3 Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 6'6 and 305. See I have a habit of not mentioning my body size when a Cute female is attracted to my face photo. I get so wrapped up in the convo and their face that I forget to mention I'm a big guy. I have done twice, and need to mention it in the future mainly because my phone voice makes me sound like i'm in good shape I would go out with a 6'6 305 lb guy. Just be honest with them. I know you are afraid to say 305 lbs. Dating is about losing , winning, pain , rejection and one day you AREN'T rejected anymore because someone has chosen you... If you shut the door you can gaurantee no more dates in 2007.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 18, 2007 Author Posted July 18, 2007 I would go out with a 6'6 305 lb guy. Just be honest with them. I know you are afraid to say 305 lbs. Dating is about losing , winning, pain , rejection and one day you AREN'T rejected anymore because someone has chosen you... If you shut the door you can gaurantee no more dates in 2007. I usually do but my phone voice is not really connected to a HUSKY BUILD so that's why I have to make it clear when I talk to someone before meeting
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