DateAnalyzer Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Is the second date always a gaunrantee when a female compliments you on a date, brings up sex, and smiles when I complimented her? I called her later in the evening the same night as the date when I arrived home but I couldn't leave a message because the mailbox was full. So when do i make my next call? Sunday? Monday? I still feel pretty good about how the date went especially since I haven't been complimented on a date in 7 years.
alphamale Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Is the second date always a gaunrantee when a female compliments you on a date, brings up sex, and smiles when I complimented her? no I called her later in the evening the same night as the date when I arrived home but I couldn't leave a message because the mailbox was full. bad move, but she probably knows you called due to caller ID So when do i make my next call? Sunday nite at the earliest.
Krytellan Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I called her later in the evening the same night as the date when I arrived home but I couldn't leave a message because the mailbox was full. So when do i make my next call? Sunday? Monday? You will find that a lot of people will hack on you for this. Don't let them get to you. I think it's cool that you wanted to talk after the date. My last gf called me an hour after our first date to invite me to the falls for a hike and I thought it was the coolest thing. When to call is up to you. Do you want someone who doesn't give a rat's a$$ about the dating rules or do you want someone who plays by them? If you want someone who doesn't care about them, give her a call Saturday or Sunday afternoon and invite her out again. Just be careful about the being too creepy thing. If you can't leave a message after the next call, I wouldn't call back for a while. If you want someone who plays the "dating rules" follow Alpha's advice. He'll point you in the right direction for that.
Pyro Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Is the second date always a gaunrantee when a female compliments you on a date, brings up sex, and smiles when I complimented her? I called her later in the evening the same night as the date when I arrived home but I couldn't leave a message because the mailbox was full. So when do i make my next call? Sunday? Monday? I still feel pretty good about how the date went especially since I haven't been complimented on a date in 7 years. Its not a guarantee but I do think that your chances are pretty good. Thats a tough call. I am not sure if your number still shows up on the caller ID even if the box is full. Krytellan's advice sounds pretty good to me. If you still encounter the same problem, maybe you can email her (if you have her email) to let her know that you have tried to contact her, but its up to you.
Bronzepen Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Is the second date always a gaunrantee when a female compliments you on a date, brings up sex, and smiles when I complimented her? I called her later in the evening the same night as the date when I arrived home but I couldn't leave a message because the mailbox was full. So when do i make my next call? Sunday? Monday? I still feel pretty good about how the date went especially since I haven't been complimented on a date in 7 years. There is no gaunrantee in life except that we are all going to die. Take it slow. Call her after a few days. When you talk, let her know you have a life and you have other things going on. Don't come off as needy. Big turn off for women. Good Luck.
alphamale Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Take it slow. Call her after a few days. When you talk, let her know you have a life and you have other things going on. Don't come off as needy. Big turn off for women. agreed...
nylah Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 If you have not heard from her by now, then you should try calling her again....If she does not answer or call you back then don't call her anymore.....I hope it works out for ya.....
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 Well I think I was just going by what I used to do 7 years ago, if the date was going well with back and forth compliments I called her before I went to sleep. Plus It seems like when I'm waiting to hear from someone I'm interested in everyone on the planet calls me-lol All my relatives and friends who I haven't talked to in months all of a sudden calls. People who didn't call at all before the first date but for some reason is calling now
nylah Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 what's up?? have you heard from her? have you tried calling her again?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 what's up?? have you heard from her? have you tried calling her again? No I haven't heard from her yet, I was going to wait until Sunday Night. I do know it wil be very hard to go on another date after this if I never heard from her again. I just wouldn't have the mental energy to go on another date after not hearing from a girl again who on the date brought up sex, said I was cute, and smiled all through the date. I mean how could a guy really continue to go on dates after that?
nylah Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 well, i guess it's kool to wait until sunday....but take it from a "girl", I would be pissed if you didn't call after the date....when you say she brought up sex....what do you mean?....I can tell you right now, that you will have to keep going on dates if this doesn't work out....why wouldn't you want to?....I'm excited for ya!! I hope things work out with this chic.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 well, i guess it's kool to wait until sunday....but take it from a "girl", I would be pissed if you didn't call after the date....when you say she brought up sex....what do you mean?....I can tell you right now, that you will have to keep going on dates if this doesn't work out....why wouldn't you want to?....I'm excited for ya!! I hope things work out with this chic. Since the age of 25 my ego has taken several beatings and i'm not sure if I can take anymore mental beatings. So I will have oull out of the dating game early at age of 32. But When she brought up sex she was talking about a conversation on the phone we had a couple of nights before the date. I told I have not had sex in 7 years and I was surprised she brought it up on the date.
Krytellan Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 But When she brought up sex she was talking about a conversation on the phone we had a couple of nights before the date. I told I have not had sex in 7 years and I was surprised she brought it up on the date. Umm... maybe you might want to shy away from this in the future. That early in a relationship at least. This may make a girl feel weird, like if she has sex with you then you're going to be all weird and clingy on her. They might feel it as a lot of responsibility.
alphamale Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I told I have not had sex in 7 years very bad decision
nylah Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 well if you told her that before the date, then obviously she didn't have a problem with it or she would have never gone on the date....what do you consider a mental beating???....did you have a bad break up or something?...Well, I'm still hopeful about this girl.....don't give up yet.....
nylah Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 very bad decision do believe that will scare a girl off?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 well if you told her that before the date, then obviously she didn't have a problem with it or she would have never gone on the date....what do you consider a mental beating???....did you have a bad break up or something?...Well, I'm still hopeful about this girl.....don't give up yet..... My confidence started to get low after not getting past the first date for 9 dates in a row. My ego has become bruised and I need to get my confidence back up and the only way to do that is to reach a second date. Something I haven't done since August of 2000
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 Umm... maybe you might want to shy away from this in the future. That early in a relationship at least. This may make a girl feel weird, like if she has sex with you then you're going to be all weird and clingy on her. They might feel it as a lot of responsibility. I will make sure I say-"I had sex last week" in the future.
alphamale Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I will make sure I say-"I had sex last week" in the future. why don't you just say nothing about your sex life instead?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 why don't you just say nothing about your sex life instead? You know I always thought that was a stupid question to ask someone anyway because you may get a answer you don't want. I don't like asking that question at all
nylah Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 My confidence started to get low after not getting past the first date for 9 dates in a row. My ego has become bruised and I need to get my confidence back up and the only way to do that is to reach a second date. Something I haven't done since August of 2000 I would love to go with you on a second date;) Just look at it this way, maybe it's the women that you're dating.... If you don't keep trying then you won't ever make to the second date! What are you saying(or doing) on these dates?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 I would love to go with you on a second date;) Just look at it this way, maybe it's the women that you're dating.... If you don't keep trying then you won't ever make to the second date! What are you saying(or doing) on these dates? Well I was able to identify that my SHYNESS was making me boring and unattractive. So on my last two dates I was more talkative, flirted more, and smiled more. If I can maintain that then I should be fine
nylah Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I think you will be fine too...just don't quit and do keep us posted about the lastest girl....see ya
Krytellan Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I will make sure I say-"I had sex last week" in the future. Actually, many women would consider it classy if you don't talk about it at all. There is nothing necessarily to be gained with a "real woman" by mentioning your sex life at all. Quiet confidence goes farther than any bragging. Remember that.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 Actually, many women would consider it classy if you don't talk about it at all. There is nothing necessarily to be gained with a "real woman" by mentioning your sex life at all. Quiet confidence goes farther than any bragging. Remember that. I was being sarcastic when I said that
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