jmel Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I am a dancer myself, but in the last months I have been going to the ladies clubs at least twice a week. I am beautiful n smart, but I seem to have developed a habit of going to see the male strippers and spending all my money. I spent $800 in the last two days, and all I want is to go back to get more of this guys. The worst thing is that I feel very depressed after I leave this clubs, and the next day I feel so bad at myself for spending sooo much cash on this. When I make a lot of money, I feel like I got to share it with the "guys" and end up spending it all. why??
burning 4 revenge Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Wait a second...you're a good looking woman with an addiction to naked male dancers? That's kind of hot. What is it you like best about it? Do you have a specific body part you're particularly fond of?
Author jmel Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 No specific body part, just love to have a bunch of muscular good looking guys to choose from without having to have anything serious. I love beautiful men...almost naked. I get to be on the other side, part of the audience, not the performer
burning 4 revenge Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Don't some of them want to have no strings sex without charging you anything? Women are usually better at manipulting guys into spending money than vice versa
Author jmel Posted July 14, 2007 Author Posted July 14, 2007 and I have done that, too. I even got to the point of tipping them so well knowing that I mite end up messing around that nite. The problem is that I spend lots of money and then feel bad about it
burning 4 revenge Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I've had trouble going to strip clubs too much and I know a lot of guys who have, but I never dreamed young women could have the same problem. I think part of it is the drinking and part of it is getting to choose whoever you want, like you say, it's the power to say I want you and you and you... It's too much fun and that's why it's so expensive
lonelybird Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I am a dancer myself, but in the last months I have been going to the ladies clubs at least twice a week. I am beautiful n smart, but I seem to have developed a habit of going to see the male strippers and spending all my money. I spent $800 in the last two days, and all I want is to go back to get more of this guys. The worst thing is that I feel very depressed after I leave this clubs, and the next day I feel so bad at myself for spending sooo much cash on this. When I make a lot of money, I feel like I got to share it with the "guys" and end up spending it all. why?? Hi, you are stripper as well? so when you are dancing on the stage, what do you think about those men who watching you and drooling? then try reverse the role.....probably can stop you from doing that
lonelybird Posted July 15, 2007 Posted July 15, 2007 Hi, maybe your case is more than "drooling", sorry. It's like kind of addiction, you know it's not good, but you could not help to do it, and after did it, you became depressed, and regreted "why you cannot stop it" "why lack of self-control" Addiction is a substitute, like over-eating, drugs, porns....that means you are NOT happy about your life, you want something fulfill your life but didn't find right things yet? or you don't know if lack of the addiction, what would you do to make yourself content in heart. This is very common in this today's society. people are confusing, searching.... Are you content with your life?
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