Loving like no other

[fly_gurl]

I don't know if this is the right spot for this particular post, but I'll have at it. It never ceases to amaze me how much of a caring person I truly am. No matter how much I have been hurt, I am still the most loving and caring person one could ever meet. I am always willing to forgive, under any circumstances. I go beyond more to please people and to put a smile upon everyones face that walks through my door. I guess I'm what you'll call a "people pleaser". Thing is, I'm %100 sure that this is what I want to be. I have my "righties" and my "lefties" always sayin' "why are you so nice?" "you'll end up really hurt one day", "you shouldn't do that"...Why shouldn't I? I've been hurt so many times, yet no one would ever find an ounce of hate in my blood. I am very content with how I live my life. I've come to notice recently that I've been strangely unhappy. Not because of what anyone else has done, but because of myself?? Hmm strange. I still don't know what is causing this "unhappiness"? I don't know? I'll have to figure this one out?

 

 

Love, Peace, Love:love:

[Lezbean]

Your unhappiness is most likely from resentment whether you realize it or not.

 

You are running around filling up everyone's love tanks and nobody is filling up yours.

 

Think about it like a bank. You keep making withdrawals and nobody is making any deposits.

 

Start taking time to love yourself first and put yourself first and get your tank filled back up.

[halfarock]

In a way I’m a bit like you. I‘m mostly happy with myself, my life, and confident in being who I am. I don’t know so much that I am a people pleaser yet it seems that I often end up doing things that make others smile. I’ve been hurt several times over, but I just pick myself up and carry on with a smile.

 

Your sadness, it seems, doesn’t come from resentment, because, your happiness, or sadness comes from within. With me, I’ve discovered, there are people who are drawn to me, who seem to use me to find some kind of happiness that they can’t find themselves. Even though it can be draining at times, I get a charge out of making others happy. It makes me happy that I can so easily make others happy.

 

Ever so often I feel sad, sometimes really sad, for no real apparent reason. It seems like it is just part of a cycle. Like you can’t be happy all the time, you need to be sad a little bit ever now and then to balance it all out.

[D&L]

I think you may be unhappy because being in every instance that you are nice, maybe even too nice and caring, you get bit in the a** everytime and you are tired of it. And cant seem to undersatnd why you put yourself through this everytime when you know better.