Mr. Lucky Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 Refresh my memory please Mr. Lucky...what gender are you? Refresh my memory please Carbine...are you single? There is a lot about the OP's post that is implied and I'm just going off of that...so I maybe wrong but can you see where I'm coming from? He admitted what he did, obviously it upset and angered her to a noticeable degree...they obviously reconciled to an extent but no doubt there was still a fair bit of tension...next thing he's pressuring her for oral sex?! How does that work?? Yes, fair enough you expect that sort of sexual favour from your SO, but not to an extent that it makes you that unhappy. The OP said this made her feel like a stripper which makes me think her husband probably treated her in a way that was out of character when requesting this sort of thing. My bet is that he had some sort of residual sexual tension and/or resentment built up from denying himself the private dance at the strip club and as a result, acted out his fantasies on his wife. If my boyfriend went to a strip club and even THOUGHT about laying a finger on me for the next month or so, he'd be ambulanced off to the emergency, quicker than you can say "lapdance". Funny how your attempt to connect the dots between between the strip club visit and the later bedroom activities fits right into your agenda. Let me re-write the script in your terms: "Fueled by testosterone, porn fantasies and alcohol, the married man barely overcame his baser instincts and narrowly avoided the temptation to sexually assault two young schoolgirls walking nearby. Good thing my pockets aren't filled with loose change, he thought, or I'd be sorely tempted to stop by the local whorehouse and knock off a couple on my way home. Fortunately, I can always return to my castle and victimize my hapless wife while rerunning stripper fantasies in my head" Sound about right ? Mr. Lucky
rainfall Posted July 21, 2007 Posted July 21, 2007 Damn.Now this is the reason men keep their male outtings out of the ears of their whiny and insecure wives! I'm sorry, but he was honest and respectful and you are a nutbag. Get the hell over it. Disliking strip clubs doesn't make someone insecure. Women have every right to say that is a deal breaker for them and if their man can't live with that he can leave.
Author snowcat Posted July 21, 2007 Author Posted July 21, 2007 Spinoff question to the guys: what would you have done in this situation? Would you have gone into the strip club, knowing how your wife would feel or would you have stayed outside, knowing your brother and the other guys would probably tease you the rest of the time?
enoughisenough Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 Well snow, who is going to sit in the car bored out of their mind for 2+ hours? I don't think anyone. Only a matter of time before the guy goes inside to see what's up. If I was having fun with my gfs and along the way they wanted to meader inside a male strip joint, I'd go in. Why should my bf be worried when I am not doing anything? What I would be worried about is that your husband feels upset he didn't go to the private room too. He might be opening up and bringing this to light and reality to prevent himself from doing something crazy again and going further.
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