lisa345 Posted July 13, 2007 Posted July 13, 2007 "My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, he didn't something a year ago that hurt me deep, and I don't know how to deal with it I feel I cant trust him, he is also abusive and im having a hard time ending it, he makes me feel sorry for him and why or how he does i don't know. well this is what he did, he had this 16 year old girl working for him, I left one day at 5. went home tried to call to say goodnight he wouldn't answer the phone or e-mail, so I went to bed. I got up at 7am had an e-mail from his e-mail address and it was that girl, she was in his home at 2am in the morning. well I call him to ask him why she was there in the middle of the night and he said she locked her key in the house and needed to make a call. so I understood. then I went there an was on his computer an I pulled up nude photos of her that he took, it just about killed me, then I find out he took her to get some sex drug call X he says that he was getting me me and him, I told him I would never do something like that and he knew it. He tell me that nothing happened and that he never touched her, she just flashed her tits and he snapped a pic, still he is telling me nothing happened and that he has not and would never cheat on me, but to me he did, and it hurts and I cant trust him, plus the fact of her being the age that she was really bothers me why would he do something like that? what do you think? what should I do?" please
Pyro Posted July 13, 2007 Posted July 13, 2007 I am so sorry for what you went through, but he is so full of sh*t. Unfortunately since the two of you have been together it will be difficult for you to end things but that is what you need to do. He sounds very selfish and immature. There is no other option. End it and end it now. You may need some support to back you up and this place is perfect.
Pyro Posted July 13, 2007 Posted July 13, 2007 what do you think happened The evidence is overwhelming. He had sex with that 16 year old, no doubt about it. If she let him take that picture, do you think that she stopped there? So how old is he? You also need to consider your health. He probably didn't wrap it up, so if she had anything.............
Author lisa345 Posted July 13, 2007 Author Posted July 13, 2007 hes 43 he say he would take a lie detector test, he says he never touched her . im just sick
Pyro Posted July 13, 2007 Posted July 13, 2007 hes 43 he say he would take a lie detector test, he says he never touched her . im just sick I would be sick too. There are so many ways to get around those tests and I am sure that he knows that. He is complete scum. You can't trust the guy and no relationship lasts without trust, so why stay with him?
Pyro Posted July 13, 2007 Posted July 13, 2007 Alright, now its weird. You made the exact same thread a couple years back.
Author lisa345 Posted July 13, 2007 Author Posted July 13, 2007 he has a bad temper that im afraid off and alway have been, at times i hate him for what he has done to me. hell he told me that it wouldnt have happen if i would have been there with him my fault anf that he just took at pic and thats it he says
Author lisa345 Posted July 13, 2007 Author Posted July 13, 2007 i forgot I posted that , but that is everything that happened, I need help to get a way from him I want him out of my mind :""""
Citizen Erased Posted July 13, 2007 Posted July 13, 2007 Alright, now its weird. You made the exact same thread a couple years back. BAHAHAHA Except the girl was 15, now 16.... odd
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