VirtualInsanity Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Do men/women steer away from dating shy people? Are outgoing people better?
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Do men/women steer away from dating shy people? Are outgoing people better? Not necessarily, but it is more difficult to get to know a shy person obviously.
Author VirtualInsanity Posted July 12, 2007 Author Posted July 12, 2007 but it is more difficult to get to know a shy person obviously. I'm shy but only w/ people I'm uncomfortable w/ or find scary or annoying.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 I'm shy but only w/ people I'm uncomfortable w/ or find scary or annoying. I am as well, so its all good.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Lots of people don't prefer shy individuals because it takes more time and effort to get them to open up and talk to them. If she is cute, then I will at least attempt to try and talk to her, but if I don't get much feedback, then she is probably not interested and I will move on.
Author VirtualInsanity Posted July 12, 2007 Author Posted July 12, 2007 Sounds like u have no patience w/ shy people. Can I assume your outgoing?
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Sounds like u have no patience w/ shy people. Can I assume your outgoing? Where did you get that idea from? I know many great people who are on the shy side.
Author VirtualInsanity Posted July 12, 2007 Author Posted July 12, 2007 From the last part. It sounded like it.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 From the last part. It sounded like it. Not at all, but wouldn't you do the same? If you tried talking to someone and you didn't get much feedback, wouldn't you assume that the person is not interested in you?
StayClose Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Most people don't deliberately avoid shy people, but shyness can be misinterpreted as.. "I'm not interested in talking to you." "I'm too good for you" "I don't like you" "I'm hiding something." "I have a BF/GF" etc.
Author VirtualInsanity Posted July 12, 2007 Author Posted July 12, 2007 We we talking about verbal only? If yes then no.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 We we talking about verbal only? If yes then no. No? Why not?
melodymatters Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 I am a very outgoing person who tends to be most attracted to the shyer, quieter types. Maybe one " showman" in the family is enough ! But, like the others said, I need to know your interested in me, so if the shyness gets in the way of that..........
Author VirtualInsanity Posted July 12, 2007 Author Posted July 12, 2007 No? Why not? Why not what? Most people don't deliberately avoid shy people, but shyness can be misinterpreted as.. "I'm not interested in talking to you." "I'm too good for you" "I don't like you" "I'm hiding something." "I have a BF/GF" etc. I put out that vibe. My downfall to being shy.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Why not what? Why would you not assume that someone was not interested in you if you were getting no feedback from them?
Author VirtualInsanity Posted July 12, 2007 Author Posted July 12, 2007 Why would you not assume that someone was not interested in you if you were getting no feedback from them? I didn't say that. Not interested is not interested shy or no shy.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 I didn't say that. Not interested is not interested shy or no shy. Oh, ok. Your post made it sound otherwise.
Author VirtualInsanity Posted July 12, 2007 Author Posted July 12, 2007 Oh, ok. Your post made it sound otherwise. Maybe you read it wrong.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Maybe you read it wrong. It looks right to me, but look at post 9 and post 11 and tell me what you think.
Author VirtualInsanity Posted July 12, 2007 Author Posted July 12, 2007 It looks right to me, but look at post 9 and post 11 and tell me what you think. Reread 11.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Reread 11. Alright, now I am confused. Either way, sorry for going off-topic on your thread. Hopefully people will still respond.
Pyro Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Most people don't deliberately avoid shy people, but shyness can be misinterpreted as.. "I'm not interested in talking to you." "I'm too good for you" "I don't like you" "I'm hiding something." "I have a BF/GF" etc. I think that you hit the nail right on the head.
Cobra_X30 Posted July 13, 2007 Posted July 13, 2007 Shy girls are the best. They keep the mystery going!
lino Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I like shy girls also but they're also the ones that cause alot of problems later. From what I've seen shy guys don't get very far.
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