Lauriebell82 Posted July 12, 2007 Posted July 12, 2007 Well for those of you who responded to my other thread about my bf freaking out over my snapping at him. We had a really good talk. He told me that he hates when I get frustrated about things that don't matter that much. He said that this is because he is because he has a stressful job and he worries about it all the time, so when he is with me he likes a stress free environment. He said that he knows things aren't always going to be stress free, but if I could try not to get so frustrated over little things. I guess I just really wasn't listening to what he said. But it really helped to talk to him about everything in a non-judgemental way. We had an excellent talk and I think we came up with some good solutions. He told me he would try not to get so upset that I get easily frustrated, and I said that I would try to calm myself down before I get pissed off over something stupid. But everything worked out, and we are doing great. So thanks for the advice, it really helped.
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