purety1 Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 I know my story is long and definetely not space very well. Does anyone have any advice for me... NC is full affect.. but I saw him driving today... glanced over... and of course if he looked I would never know.. I haven't seen him in about 2 weeks.. I am angry stil and trying to let it go..............
sao2 Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 You are in a tough situation because it is ending before it even really started. He is trying to make a major life decision and then here you are. You two have something but it is too soon for him to consider you when making life changing desicions. I understand feeling hurt and I think he overreacted when you said you didn't want him to go. I don't know what to tell you other than now is the time for no contact.
Author purety1 Posted July 11, 2007 Author Posted July 11, 2007 so you think he just got scared when i said that i didn't want him to go.. maybe he thought i was getting attached. I thought we had something at one point and then...I completely understand if he is happier in Cali.. I want him to be happy. But deleting me from his online friends that was cold... why did he do that? He just ignores me and that hurts. Why did he say hi to me the one day... when he was around his coworkers after he had deleted me online a week before that? I have to be around him tommorow all day... that will be rough.. I have to walk around and smile.. while pretending he doesn't exist I guess.. Help! What do i do if he talks to me... or If i walk directly past him.. do I say hello???
sao2 Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 I think he is contemplating a huge life change and he doesn't want his thoughts about a relatively new relationship clouding his mind. I think when he finally makes a decision about California you will notice a change in his behavior towards you.
Author purety1 Posted July 11, 2007 Author Posted July 11, 2007 Yeah I guess your right. Although it is hard because we work together..well not for long if he leaves. I understand its a big life change. Thank you. I guess understanding that will make this all much easier...somehow.. tommorow... might be a little rough. It's just the whole ignoring me and acting like i never existing... is hard to deal with..because it hurts. ;(
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