alphamale Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 A real man doesn't need submission, he needs a partner to enrich his life. If his self-esteem and self-respect requires a doormat, he's not much of a man. a real man dominates and a real woman wants to be dominated
Trialbyfire Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Did you see my ps.? The more you are submissive, the more he wants to be a MAN, the more he wants to protect you . how about that? Why should I pretend to be submissive in order for someone who supposedly cares, to want to defend me? If that's the case, then the reverse should hold true. The funny thing is that I don't believe in a man needing to be submissive in order for me to defend him. Weird huh? If you don't want to protect what you love, there's a problem with your love.
Trialbyfire Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 a real man dominates and a real woman wants to be dominated Don't make me bring out the whip...
lonelybird Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Why should I pretend to be submissive in order for someone who supposedly cares, to want to defend me? If that's the case, then the reverse should hold true. The funny thing is that I don't believe in a man needing to be submissive in order for me to defend him. Weird huh? If you don't want to protect what you love, there's a problem with your love. I didn't mean "pretend", if you fully embrace who you are, you are on best side of youself. It is fear and pride not to want to be submissive. If one person is willingly to be submissive to another, it triguers good effect, that the another wants to do same as well, and respect each other. YET, competition trigues bad feelings, manipulation, power struggle.... Submissive is humble
Trialbyfire Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I didn't mean "pretend", if you fully embrace who you are, you are on best side of youself. It is fear and pride not to want to be submissive. If one person is willingly to be submissive to another, it triguers good effect, that the another wants to do same as well, and respect each other. YET, competition trigues bad feelings, manipulation, power struggle.... Submissive is humble I have fully embraced who I am and am happy with it. If there are men that aren't satisfied with this, it's not my issue. Why does it need to be a competition? Why can't two strong people coexist and mesh well, if they can work together on making an even better relationship? You compliment each other with your strengths and make each other grow and improve. It's funny because I don't have submissive friends and have yet to date or have a relationship of any kind with a submissive man. None of my family are submissive.
alphamale Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Why can't two strong people coexist and mesh well, cause too many cooks in the kitchen spoil the broth
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Did you see my ps.? The more you are submissive, the more he wants to be a MAN, the more he wants to protect you . how about that? why you always misunderstand my message.... Fully embrace your feminine side She's bent on destroying every role of a man to create her own.
Trialbyfire Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 cause too many cooks in the kitchen spoil the broth If they both cook, it can be quite the experience...
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 You're looking a the word submissive too firmly. It's not to be a slave. It's letting him take charge at times and him letting you take charge at times. You can't be a tag team if you both want in the ring at the same time. You have to sacrifice to give the other person mobility. Works with my relationship of 3 1/2 years:D
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I guess if someone broke in their home, she'll be the one with the bat in her hand telling him to wait in the bed!:lmao:
alphamale Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I guess if someone broke in their home, she'll be the one with the bat in her hand telling him to wait in the bed!:lmao: yea haha and she'd also be squishing the spiders and catching the mice
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 yea haha and she'd also be squishing the spiders and catching the mice We can't forget mowing the lawn, shoveling the driveway, and changing the flat tire while he sits in the car with the heater on.
alphamale Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 We can't forget mowing the lawn, shoveling the driveway, and changing the flat tire while he sits in the car with the heater on. hhahahaha...you forgot that she would also have to do all the barbequing
Curmudgeon Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 Works with my relationship of 3 1/2 years:D And how does he like it?
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 And how does he like it? Just as well as your husband does;)
Curmudgeon Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 You're joking, right? No man (and the operative word here is MAN) in his right mind wants a submissive wife, nor does he need one in order to feel like a man. One of the reasons I married my wife was because she was my professional, educational, intellectual equal. It makes for mutuality, stimulating conversation and constant challenge -- challenge to be the best person I can be and challenge to stay even with her. I can think of nothing worse than a mate who is a vapid sychophant. How utterly false and totally boring. Protection should be instinctual and borne of love rather than required or contrived. YUCK!
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 hhahahaha...you forgot that she would also have to do all the barbequing She probably wants him and her to both hold onto the steering wheel when driving! She pushes the gas while he pushes the breaks!:lmao: TIME IT TIME IT!:lmao:
Pyro Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 a real man dominates and a real woman wants to be dominated We are not in the 1950s anymore. Women now have the courage to not be walked all over. Thats your definition of a real man and a real woman?
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 You're joking, right? No man (and the operative word here is MAN) in his right mind wants a submissive wife, nor does he need one in order to feel like a man. I thought you were joking. You clearly read my statement wrong. I'm straight. I can think of nothing worse than a mate who is a vapid sychophant. How utterly false and totally boring. Protection should be instinctual and borne of love rather than required or contrived. YUCK! No one's saying that at all. "You both can't drive the car at the same time." You both have to step back and let the other take control once in a while. NO couple does everything simultaneously! NO marriage works like that. I know subconsciously you did things that were considered a man's capability, whether it was or not. Unless you paid people to do it, then that's a different story.
Pyro Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 I have fully embraced who I am and am happy with it. If there are men that aren't satisfied with this, it's not my issue. Why does it need to be a competition? Why can't two strong people coexist and mesh well, if they can work together on making an even better relationship? You compliment each other with your strengths and make each other grow and improve. It's funny because I don't have submissive friends and have yet to date or have a relationship of any kind with a submissive man. None of my family are submissive. Its as simple as this-anyone who purposely seeks to find a submissive partner gets intimidated easily and is a control freak. Now who would want anyone like that?
Pyro Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 humble is NOT = walked all over I agree. I never said that.
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 humble is NOT = walked all over They just don't get it.
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 We are not in the 1950s anymore. Women now have the courage to not be walked all over. Thats your definition of a real man and a real woman? They had the courage back then. There you go, the defender of women again. You couldn't resist responding to his post. Did it ever occur to you he didn't mean it in that way? ______________________________________ Collect those browny points:bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny:
Hyperpen12000 Posted July 14, 2007 Posted July 14, 2007 You know what, I'll just leave you alone...............
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