buzzie2 Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 is there a way to tell if a guy you're thinking of dating might have a porn addiction? can you tell by something in his personality? my last bf had a really bad porn addiction this is why i ask.
Enema Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 Can you please define your last boyfriends' "really bad porn addiction" ?
disgracian Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 Sneak into his room while he's on the computer. If he quickly ALT+TABs to something else then chances are he was doing something that he doesn't think you'll approve of. Cheers, D.
Lizzie60 Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 If he answers 'yeessssssss' a lot... or moan a lot ... no... seriously... I would think it could be hard, almost impossible to know while you're dating...unless you actually catch him watching it...but then he can say he only watches it once in a while... and lied about it. Or if he admits to watching porn every day... I'm not sure... how did you know your last bf was an addict? Were you living with him... how did you find out?
high_boost Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 check the history on is pc, look under the bed, under the couch, in the closet. see if his tallywacker has been rubbed raw. if your keeping him happy you shouldnt need to worry about it tho
disgracian Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 cd\ dir/b/s | find ".jpg" > files.txt Open "files.txt" in Notepad & have a browse. Cheers, D.
Enema Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 I had an ex-girlfriend that was similarly mental about porn. I had a .bat file that simply renamed all the .mpg's to .dat's and moved them to \data\archive. Ahh the days of finding inventive hiding techniques. Then eventually I asked myself why I was doing it and dumped her.
cyclegirl Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 Don't believe for a minute how much you two are sexually active has anything to do with them being a porn addict. This is about him. If he is having to change his daily habbits over this, he is most likely an addict. Read up online about porn addiction. My ex husband was a porn addict, and it was a very difficult situtation to work through.
FaaipDiOaid Posted July 19, 2007 Posted July 19, 2007 Um, I can't believe people are suggesting you sneak onto his computer and look at his private things. That's one of the worst things I've ever heard. Ask him, openly, and be respectful. What if you found out that he was secretly reading all your mail and looking through stuff in your closet?
electric_sheep Posted July 20, 2007 Posted July 20, 2007 is there a way to tell if a guy you're thinking of dating might have a porn addiction? can you tell by something in his personality? my last bf had a really bad porn addiction this is why i ask. Psychologists at Berkeley developed a pretty accurate test that you can buy over the counter. You just have to have a small pee sample, roughly 2 oz or so.
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