Lucky555 Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 Well i have been seeing this guy, however i don't feel crazy about him. I know i should end it but i like hanging out with him. were just friends which is good. but i am looking for a real relationship while this seems to be just a fling. Hes interested in me but as i get to know him the less i like him. I want things out of life and i work hard, he floats through life and doesn't really care about himself. I am actually becoming annoyed by his behaviors even though hes cute. So i see him like every week, my question is how do i end it without hurting him? I tried my best i did, i mean he just doesn't have a lot going for him and he doesn't seem to mind that but i do because i want to move forward in life. He is sweet and he does show affection, but thats the thing he shows affection but doesn't seem to be GOING ANYWHERE in life. Am i being superficial?? I think i should would be best spending my time working out instead of with him. Its like when i am with him i feel good and that seems about all. He wants to pursue the relationship further with me but it just seems too easy. Hes going along with things and showing affection and calling me to come over. Heres what i think hes like: I think he gives girls a lot of attention so that they fall for him and they pay his way. I think he depends on women and is basically their "toy". I am not mad at him its just i hoped that he was different but obviously i have to start looking elsewhere. Need to make it clear we are friends and nothing more. I have overlooked numerous things but i really want to be with someone who wants to be with me and is willing to work hard just like me to have a common goal and work together. Another thing is i heard him talking to a girl the way he talks to me. he uses this sweet non-pressure flirty voice and it works. But i am so glad i got to know him before anything else happened! Tell me what u all think
Brioli Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 I think you sound like a very smart and responsible girl! I think you should move on too. It is very important to be involved with someone who has the same drive and goals as you do. I agree that some people are statisfied with the simple life, but these people usually end up struggling later in life. I mean if you love him, which it doesn't sound like you do. You have to consider that if you marry him, you may be the one footing the bill. Some women have done this, and I don't think there is anything wrong with it if they are happy. You just have to decide whats important for you. Being with him, but having to foot the bill all the time or finding someone new. *Bri
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