meleeda Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 I have been living with this guy now for just about three years, recently he told me he wanted to break up and be single so he moved out and we devided all our personal possestions. The he told me he wanted to work things out and how much he missed me and stuff. So he made a promise to me that he would be faithful and not sleep around. No way and I ready to move in together again. Here is the dilema I have, saturday night I went out to the bar where he works, he is a musician and play part time in a band. Well to make a long story short before our break up he was always nice to other women but never went out of his way to catch the attention of anyone, now I notice that he always seams to be on the make, when a women walks by he either pokes her or taps her or what ever it is to get her attention. He often goes for a walk outside and every time I see him out their he is either talking to a women or trying to get as much attention from any of them as possible. Never do I see him chatting it up with men. He will walk down the street and say hello to every women he passes but ignores the men. He says that its just his job and he has to be courtious to everyone. My question is why does he not say hello to men then?? The night I went out when I walked into the bar he was sitting with two women just chatting it up, as soon as he noticed me walk in he got rather nervous and stopped what he was doing and come over to me, the thing is one of the women he was talking to kept watching everything I was doing. During our break up he slept with someone "not sure who" but so did I. But I am not sure if I did it out of spite or just the comfort of another. I feel so confused about the situation I am in, it seams now he is on the constant make where so before he was not. I think I need to dump this guy and get on with life, or should I just stand back and let him go with it. I am normally not a jealous women in fact I am not jealous at all but this situation has me so confused....... What do I do..... Help me. .... Please.
Brioli Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 He sounds like either A. He got really hurt by you sleeping around, even though he did it too or B. He is a DOG, and is messing around with other women. Did you ask him why it's only to the women that he greets or chats? How old is he?
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