turtle32 Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 Ok here it is i met this lady online andshe lives near chicago and i live in a small town in kentucky we ahve visted each other often she has been here several times sayes she likes it but I know it is real different. She has never been married and has no children i have and have two children which she likes alot bust she has been telling me the past coupel weeks that she is having trouble thinking about moving here and she worries that she we fail or cant handle being a parent and leaving her job and friends and family she has talked alot about wanting to marry me and she even looked at houses here we had talked about her moving here for awhile and see if she liked it i know it is a tough decsion for her she sayes she loves me very much and dont want me out of her life but she thinks if we cant be married in the future why should we date. I dont want to lose her but i guess i know it is probally going to happen. I cant move becasue of my job and my kids just wondering if anyone had any ideals how we could work things out . I just think she will give up without knowing if she could handle being a parent or the lifestyle here where i live and we will never know what could have been. Thanks ofr your help Link to post Share on other sites
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