chloekline Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 How come whenever I'm dating / in a relationship with a guy they take me for granted and don't really care whether they lose me or not. Then when I'm over them and have moved on, months even years later, they call me wanting desperately to get back together. Obviously by then I couldn't care less and I don't even give them the time of day. It's frustrating since this pretty much happens with all my relationships and I don't know how to eradicate it.
Krytellan Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 Well, if you really couldn't care less about them when they contact you, then it shouldn't be frustrating. And if it's not frustrating, then there's nothing to eradicate. And they act like they don't care if they lose you or not because if you act like you do care, women (and men) see it as a weakness and take advantage of it.
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