McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 I am over my ex. The one I've been posting about for almost 7 months. I was looking at some pictures of him today and I had no opinions about them or thoughts about getting back together really. The chapter has completely closed. I would definitely like to thank everyone in LS that talked to me or just gave me a space to vent about the situation but to be honest, the main thing was the fact that I like someone else. The bad news is that the person I like now is my creepy new friend I posted about who has a girlfriend and has shady motives and friend-zoned me. I just realized out of nowhere that the switch had flipped and I liked him now. In my heart I know there's no going back: its too late. I have already fallen head over heels. He is my obsession. But every hour without him passes in torment. Oh! My loins, they burn with the fires of Hell! Why can't I ever escape the torment? (Howls in pain and longing and falls to the floor tearing at my flesh in agony) Anyway this is probably not ideal but I'm still in a pretty good mood because at least its not the same ex situation that has dragged on for months right? I mean this is pretty big news, I don't care about my ex and he has been the main source of negativity in my life for months. I don't really care if he contacts me and I'm considering becoming friends or acquaintances again since it doesn't matter now.
Nemo Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 You're making all this up, right? I really don't believe it.
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 You're making all this up, right? I really don't believe it. I know its not out of the ordinary to get over an ex, but it was to me. There was no transitioning period of slowly getting over it. It was like a switch flipping. It is just random as hell, especially the terrible new guy situation. I am like who is writing the script for this? Anyway may this one not last for 8 months..
Nemo Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 and I'm considering becoming friends or acquaintances again since it doesn't matter now. Very. Bad. Idea.
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 Very. Bad. Idea. Why is that so bad? I remember that guy being a pretty good friend back in the day..now there aren't really feelings on my side, and obviously there aren't on his so... It doesn't make a large difference but since we are still roughly in the same social circle it would make things less awkward to finally acknowledge him.
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 I'm going crazy...I want to start calling up friends and telling them the news but I can't because they don't even know it was going on in the first place.
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 I don't know what your problem is but I don't really want to listen to someone's advice when they aren't even trying to make it at all clear. Why even bother then.
Nemo Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 I don't know what your problem is but I don't really want to listen It's good that I don't have any problems, then.
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 Sorry but your not going to be able to bring down my mood. Only my sucky new situation is.
Nemo Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 but to be honest, the main thing was the fact that I like someone else. This is the key to getting over any ex. The best (and perhaps only) way to get over someone, is to get under someone else.
Nemo Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 Sorry Oh - and thanks for the apology. You were being quite rude and disrespectful to me, but I forgive you.
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 This is the key to getting over any ex. The best (and perhaps only) way to get over someone, is to get under someone else. You don't have to be rude to me, I already said this wasn't the ideal way for it to happen but sometimes thats how it works out. Does anyone else think I'm being completely antogonized and not allowed one moment of hapiness? Jesus.
Nemo Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 You don't have to be rude to me, I already said this wasn't the ideal way for it to happen but sometimes thats how it works out. I was being deadly serious. Sorry if I came across as rude - it wasn't my intention.
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 I can't figure out if this is a troll or a legitimate poster. If they are a troll they're pretty determined.
Pyro Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 I can't figure out if this is a troll or a legitimate poster. If they are a troll they're pretty determined. If you stick around long enough, you will see that what he does is constant. Just don't take it to heart.
Pyro Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 I am over my ex. The one I've been posting about for almost 7 months. I was looking at some pictures of him today and I had no opinions about them or thoughts about getting back together really. The chapter has completely closed. I would definitely like to thank everyone in LS that talked to me or just gave me a space to vent about the situation but to be honest, the main thing was the fact that I like someone else. The bad news is that the person I like now is my creepy new friend I posted about who has a girlfriend and has shady motives and friend-zoned me. I just realized out of nowhere that the switch had flipped and I liked him now. In my heart I know there's no going back: its too late. I have already fallen head over heels. He is my obsession. But every hour without him passes in torment. Oh! My loins, they burn with the fires of Hell! Why can't I ever escape the torment? (Howls in pain and longing and falls to the floor tearing at my flesh in agony) Anyway this is probably not ideal but I'm still in a pretty good mood because at least its not the same ex situation that has dragged on for months right? I mean this is pretty big news, I don't care about my ex and he has been the main source of negativity in my life for months. I don't really care if he contacts me and I'm considering becoming friends or acquaintances again since it doesn't matter now. That is good news that you are over your ex, but now you are infatuated with a guy who has a GF?
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 That is good news that you are over your ex, but now you are infatuated with a guy who has a GF? Yeah but it can be nipped in the bud quickly as it only started today. Besides the good news is that I thought I would never get over my ex but now I have realized I will basically always to get over anything eventually, so now nothing that happens is that big of a deal. Does that make sense at all.
Pyro Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 Yeah but it can be nipped in the bud quickly as it only started today. Besides the good news is that I thought I would never get over my ex but now I have realized I will basically always to get over anything eventually, so now nothing that happens is that big of a deal. Does that make sense at all. If I were you I would nip that now rather than later, otherwise it will become more difficult to nip and problems could always arise. That makes perfect sense and you are correct. I swear that if everyone could understand that, then the world would be a much better place. Nothing is permanent and we all have the capability to get over someone, as long as we have the will to do it.
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 I am kind of busy anyway to worry about this guy and this doesn't seem like a big deal compared to the ex situation looming over my head for months.. The only regret I have is that I want my ex to know how much I suffered and was in agony. It seems so unfair that he doesn't know. I want him to at least acknowledge it. But I guess there's nothing I can do.
Pyro Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 I am kind of busy anyway to worry about this guy and this doesn't seem like a big deal compared to the ex situation looming over my head for months.. The only regret I have is that I want my ex to know how much I suffered and was in agony. It seems so unfair that he doesn't know. I want him to at least acknowledge it. But I guess there's nothing I can do. I would like my ex to know what BS she has put me through, but I could never get her to acknowlege that. All that you can do is turn around and move forward. If you feel that way about him, then being friends with him is probably not the best idea at this time.
Trimmer Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 The only regret I have is that I want my ex to know how much I suffered and was in agony. It seems so unfair that he doesn't know. I want him to at least acknowledge it. But I guess there's nothing I can do. Once you are all the way "over" him, you won't need this any more. Not to rain on your parade; congratulations for the progress thus far...
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 Ok, I will give it that I'm over wanting to be in a relationship with him but it will be a LONG time before I'm over the repercussions he caused, if ever. I probably will never have a relationship with that much trust again because now I know that no matter how much someone seems like they love you they can decide they want to walk out the door any day. My innocent approach to life is ruined, he has changed the entire way I can have a relationship.
Nemo Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 My innocent approach to life is ruined, he has changed the entire way I can have a relationship. That is true. The first relationship takes more away than just your virginity. Unless the first one lasts. Some do. First love is the kind of love you think will last forever. It's special.
Author McFadden Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 That is true. The first relationship takes more away than just your virginity. Unless the first one lasts. Some do. First love is the kind of love you think will last forever. It's special. Oh God now I am getting upset again. It is too bad that relationship couldn't have lasted..
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