mbeach1 Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 Hello all! Just wanting a few opinions, hoping i can get some help on here... If you want to piss off someone (particularly in my case, a giant jerk) what is the best way to do this- ignore the person or tell them off? This involves a jerk guy i saw last summer and who has recently started contacting me again, more often than ever, trying to hang out with me again. I have no intention on re-visiting the past, or becoming his summer booty call girl, but i just want to know which one would have more of an effect on him emotionally- ignoring or just telling him off. Thanks!
Keara Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 If you tell him off, there's a possibility that he'll redouble his efforts in an attempt to prove he isn't a "bad guy". I've had this happen a couple times in the past. I wanted nothing to do with the guy, and telling him this seemed to push him to try even harder. One called more often, the other started showing up at places he knew I would be, and try to "talk" me out of my opinion. One guy succeed, then immediately dropped contact after he got what he wanted. Ignore him. No response at all would be best. If you're serious about not wanting any part of this guys head trip, then don't answer when he calls, and leave the area if you see him.
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