UsernameRemoved Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 I've noticed alot of posts about porn and I'm not sure if I'm sticking this in the right section, but I've got a querry about porn too. If you and your SO filmed your own sex acts and then you found them watching it without you would be be bothered. This goes more so for people who don't like their SO watching normal porn(not home made). No perticular reason for asking this it just sorta popped into my head.
McFadden Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 Yes it would, I don't care if people watch other videos but I would not want to be in it because it might find its way onto the internet or elsewhere that I don't want it.
UsernameRemoved Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 I guess you missed the point of the question. I wasn't asking if you would make it, I was asking about your thoughts if you SO watched it without you. If you worry about it getting on the net however then you must have some trust issues with your SO.
McFadden Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 It is naive to assume that you can 'trust' any partner doing something like that. Any relationship can end badly and then who knows what will get out there. No good usually comes of taping that, it is just a stupid idea IMO. I didn't miss the point of the question. I have no problem with porn of any kind, but my only problem with this type is what I pointed out.
lindya Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 It is naive to assume that you can 'trust' any partner doing something like that. Any relationship can end badly and then who knows what will get out there. No good usually comes of taping that, it is just a stupid idea IMO. I agree. The whole "you should trust your partner completely" thing just gets out of hand sometimes. Trust your partner completely. If and when they breach that trust, nod with philosophical acceptance and move on in a healthy and timely manner....remembering not to take any "trust issues" into your next relationship. Sometimes LS is like a handbook on how to be a Stepford lover. Regarding the domestic porn film....I can't imagine watching a video of myself having sex without completely cringeing, but I suppose this is something else we're all supposed to be able to do now, to demonstrate to the world and to the partner how superbly uninhibited and baggage-free we are. For me, him watching the video on his own would be best-case scenario. I'd be more concerned about him lending the video to friends in a moment of alcohol-induced disloyalty.
taiko Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 It is naive to assume that you can 'trust' any partner doing something like that. Any relationship can end badly and then who knows what will get out there. No good usually comes of taping that, it is just a stupid idea IMO. I didn't miss the point of the question. I have no problem with porn of any kind, but my only problem with this type is what I pointed out. Just because Paris Hilton or Pam Anderson once had someone release a recording on them does not mean it will inevitably will get release. Yes to make a recording is an act of total giving of trust and love. I dare say in 99% of break ups the ex will not release or even treaten to release in lieu of legal proceedings a recording. To the original question she suprised me with one before depoloying. It was entire intent for me to watch alone.
Topper Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 There are hundreds of Internet sites out their devoted to couples who want others to watch them making love. it is often the woman who post the photos or Videos. They get a big ego boost knowing that men are lusting after them. I Understand that it is very common for our deployed married troops to send each other sexy photos and tapes. seems like it would be one way to stay close while on a long separation. If your SO is watching a sexy video of you, I would say it is a healthy sign in the relationship.
Brioli Posted July 11, 2007 Posted July 11, 2007 No it would not bother me...I would much rather him be watching us, then watching someone else and fantasizing over that porn star. Making home video's is FUN!..and I am not in any professional position where it could come back to haunt me... *Bri
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