ThatGuy666 Posted July 7, 2007 Posted July 7, 2007 Ok, so there is this girl at work, and she fakes that she likes me just to see the reaction of my face, and it pisses me off sometimes, but every Friday and saturday when i work with her, shes always sayin how im cute, and she likes me. Like yesterday we kept making eye contact and weird stuff like that. She even told me that she does it to see the look on my face. So what should i do. I was thinking of calling her a skanky chubby whore, then telling her i wanted to see what her faced looked like.
Yamaha Posted July 7, 2007 Posted July 7, 2007 Become more aggressive and really step up the flirting. Start asking her out and make her think all of her interest is driving your actions.
Author ThatGuy666 Posted July 7, 2007 Author Posted July 7, 2007 Yes, but the problem is im 16, shes 18, and she is really beautiful, and im not the flirty kind of guy, im shy, but when im at work theres hardly anytime to talk, cause were always busy. Maybe ill try to talk to her tonight.
tanbark813 Posted July 7, 2007 Posted July 7, 2007 Well she might be f**king with you just for fun, or she might actually like you but just qualify it that she's "faking" just in case you're not interested. If you like her then the next time she flirts with you just say something like, "Cool, let's go get coffee after work." Don't ask, just suggest confidently as if you already know she's going to say yes.
Yamaha Posted July 7, 2007 Posted July 7, 2007 Yes, but the problem is im 16, shes 18, and she is really beautiful, and im not the flirty kind of guy, im shy, but when im at work theres hardly anytime to talk, cause were always busy. Maybe ill try to talk to her tonight. This is why she's teasing you. She's having fun knowing it bothers you so you need to give her a taste of her own medicine. Just start smiling at her alot and tell her she's looking good and try to act confident, even if your not.
Author ThatGuy666 Posted July 7, 2007 Author Posted July 7, 2007 Thats a good idea, maybe I will do that.
Author ThatGuy666 Posted July 7, 2007 Author Posted July 7, 2007 Well plus this one time she kissed me on the cheek, so then i turned a little red, and she even wrote my name on the special bored saying she loved me, this chick is a little weir, eh.
Yamaha Posted July 7, 2007 Posted July 7, 2007 Well plus this one time she kissed me on the cheek, so then i turned a little red, and she even wrote my name on the special bored saying she loved me, this chick is a little weir, eh. She sees you as safe. You need to change her ideas about you.
Author ThatGuy666 Posted July 7, 2007 Author Posted July 7, 2007 But how, and what do you mean by safe.
jcster Posted July 7, 2007 Posted July 7, 2007 She's messing with you because she thinks that you won't follow through on it - that's why she thinks your safe. She's not trying to be mean, she probably likes you. You should at least try to be friends with her - it might change your life!
Green Posted July 7, 2007 Posted July 7, 2007 yeah shes weird most people are, shes 18 and she wants a 16 year old, look just act now well you still have a chance. Dont get yourself upset if things dont work out but make some type of move, like say you should come over and listen to the new " ...." Cd. Then if she comes back to your place put the cd on and just start mad making out with her could even turn into sex... have you ever done anything with a girl?
Author ThatGuy666 Posted July 8, 2007 Author Posted July 8, 2007 Well, today she told me she would meet me in the cooler after work, so played along and said dont worry i'll be there. Then she said you better be, but she was just playing around. So im clueless.
Author ThatGuy666 Posted July 8, 2007 Author Posted July 8, 2007 Maybe i'll start telling her i love her, then we can have a big fake fest.
Yamaha Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 Well, today she told me she would meet me in the cooler after work, so played along and said dont worry i'll be there. Then she said you better be, but she was just playing around. So im clueless. She's having fun playing with you because she thinks you don't have the guts to make a move. Keep calling her on her suggestions and she will stop the flirty suggestions.
Green Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 just act like you have something to show her at your car then when you get to the car get real close to her then get her with a kiss
Trialbyfire Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 I agree that you should start pushing her back. Flirt with her, ask her out, tell her she looks hawt the next day you see her. If you don't like her, talk to her chest from now on.
Green Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 saying some stuff aint enough you gots to get physical with this girl
Author ThatGuy666 Posted July 8, 2007 Author Posted July 8, 2007 saying some stuff aint enough you gots to get physical with this girl Well it aint that easy, it would be hard to approach this girl, she is very attractrive.
Yamaha Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 Well it isn't that easy. It would be hard to approach this girl, she is very attractive. Now is the time to start being confident. She knows your shy and timid and she is using that against you. No matter how attractive she is she's no different that any other women. You need to nip your bashfulness in the bud right now and show her ( and yourself ) that when a women behaves the way she is that men will take her up on her suggestions. There is no time like the present.
Author ThatGuy666 Posted July 8, 2007 Author Posted July 8, 2007 Now is the time to start being confident. She knows your shy and timid and she is using that against you. No matter how attractive she is she's no different that any other women. You need to nip your bashfulness in the bud right now and show her ( and yourself ) that when a women behaves the way she is that men will take her up on her suggestions. There is no time like the present. I will try to do that, but i dont work with her until next friday again, so maybe i will message her on myspace.
Green Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 dont message her on myspace unless its some kind of demand for physical satisfaction. Remember at work friday you have to make a physical move get real close to her and then just go in and kiss her, if she turns her head or turns you down or what ever just laugh it off like its some big joke to you and dont act any different toward her, pertend like it has no affect on u iether way
Author ThatGuy666 Posted July 29, 2007 Author Posted July 29, 2007 yea so i ignored her yesterday, shes like hi, and i just ignored her, so now shes pissed at me. She finally stopped.
BlueEyedSarah Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 yea so i ignored her yesterday, shes like hi, and i just ignored her, so now shes pissed at me. She finally stopped. Why did you ignore her if you like her? Why didn't you listen to peoples advice? People are here to help but you didnt listen to any of the advice they gave you. No wonder she is pissed at you, ignoring someone is rude!
shockandawed Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 You're 16 so I am going to cut you some slack on your apparent stupidity. Relationships are very confusing, for both genders and even for old farts like me. That is why we are all here. Here is what I see, she is somewhat attracted to you. Like you, she is probably not real good at doing the right thing. You obviously aren't. You asked for advise on here which tells me you are interested in this girl. You have been given some great ideas. Ignoring her is childish and will do nothing but make her think you are a jerk. Man up, apologize and admit to her you are confused by her actions, then go farther and invite her out. Be confident, friendly and sure of yourself. Have a definite plan like others have suggested. "I am sorry I came across like a jerk last night, can I make it up to you by a game of mini golf and a pizza on Tuesday?"
Green Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 i gave u some quality advice u took none of it u ignoring her isnt going to do anything. kiss the girl if u want things to go some where steal that kiss
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