IncendiumX Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 Well... here we go. i need help asap. My wife and i have been married 2 1/2 years and we have a 19mo old baby girl. I love them both entirely and with all of my heart. I am completely faithful and as far as i know my wife is too. So, we had a fight (and have had the fight other times) and she says that i never show her how i feel or that i love her. This, needless to say hurt ME deeply because i of course want her to know how i feel and want to show her but i often dont know how! I dont know what do do. I feel like we're heading for a divorce but i under no circumstances want that to happen. She hasnt said it outright but it feels like she is hinting that she is going to leave me. Can someone give me advice? She means the world to me but i dont know how to show it! I dont know what to do! i feel helpless!
Lucian Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 Go on a "date" with her... find a nice small restaurant, italian or french, candle lit dinner, romantic atmosphere, buy her flowers and a card, write something that you meanl... I love you with all my heart... you get the picture. After dinner if the mood is right, go for a walk, stop for an ice cream I hope you get the idea... show her that you want to spend quality time with her, show her that you love her, tell her that. Tell her all that you feel for her but you were afraid/not able to tell her.. Oh yes, find a babysitter for your toddler. good luck
hope4best Posted July 7, 2007 Posted July 7, 2007 I can't speak for your wife, only from my own feelings. I am the type of person that actions speak louder than words. To me, it's the little things, like stopping by my office just to say hi, or cooking dinner so I don't have to, picking flowers from the side of the road, you get the idea. It's the little moments in day to day life that matter most, just knowing that he stopped for a moment and thought about me. Good Luck!
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