neveragain2493 Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 hey everyone, well i'm sure some of you have read my last thread, a very long story. please read it, it makes this situation easier to understand. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t121735/ okay, if you didn't read it, lol, the long story in short version is that i liked a guy (evan) who eventually liked me back, but in the end lied about it completely and said he never liked me at all when he did. when we went on a class trip he met a girl older than him who liked him, and he liked her. well this girl (emelia) is trouble: she has smoked, partied, done very bad things. she told this guy i had called her a slut, liar, and druggie and that i had called and cussed her out, which i had NOT. but he believed her, and stopped talking to me. that was the short version of my past post. okay, leaving off from there: one night at 2:30 AM i get a late night IM from evan. it says "haley, i am so sorry for making this a bigger deal than it was supposed to be and staying mad at you for so long over something stupid." i forgave him, he was my friend after all. we continued to talk, somewhat distanced after what'd happened. well, about two weeks ago, i see a comment on evan's myspace from emelia that says "you are soooo not single anymore." so i knew it had happened, it was inevitable. but i told myself "just wait it out, she'll break his heart next guy that comes along and he'll come back." (NOTE i do not like evan as more than a friend anymore.) it's been two weeks or so now, and emelia purposely posts stupid comments on his profile such as: "i had such a great time tonight" "i came to see you and your ugly a** dogs today and i just thought i'd leave you a comment about it?" and the most recent: "I LOVE YOU!!!!!11111111111111111, i just thought i'd let you know." and one being filled with pictures of crabs? and another with inappropriate pictures of someone's "places"? and now evan and i hardly ever talk, he is ALWAYS talking to emelia. in the past emelia has gotten angry at him for talking to a girl she didn't like much at all. emelia does have a jealousy problem. i tried to tell him then, but he, as usual, is in denial. i have moved on.. of course i'm talking to other guys, but what bothers me is the way she is, almost obnoxious? would you agree that she's sort of, immature? and evan is a very mature person. i just don't understand. i do know that evan is younger, at least a year or two, than emelia. i keep hoping that evan will see the light. and i just need some reassurance. there have been girls in the past he's liked that have done exactly what i said they would do to him. maybe this is the same. i just don't understand, why would he be attracted to that?
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