the_otherhalf Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 Today marks my one month "anniversary" that I have gone NC with my ex-boyfriend who broke up with me in March after four years. While one month doesn't seem like long, I'm really proud of myself for making it this far. He has contacted me twice since NC. Since I was the one at fault for the breakup, I found myself always putting him on a pedestal, but I've come to realize that he has done horrible things to me as well, and feeling down all the time isn't helping me move forward. Someone who truly loves you does not break up with you for someone else, does not treat you like you're temporary, does not treat you anything like the pain I've been feeling. It's time for him to go. I'm so happy that I kept my dignity even if I had to lose him. Not quite a success story yet, but I think I'm on my way.
9Lives Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 Today marks my one month "anniversary" that I have gone NC with my ex-boyfriend who broke up with me in March after four years. While one month doesn't seem like long, I'm really proud of myself for making it this far. He has contacted me twice since NC. Since I was the one at fault for the breakup, I found myself always putting him on a pedestal, but I've come to realize that he has done horrible things to me as well, and feeling down all the time isn't helping me move forward. Someone who truly loves you does not break up with you for someone else, does not treat you like you're temporary, does not treat you anything like the pain I've been feeling. It's time for him to go. I'm so happy that I kept my dignity even if I had to lose him. Not quite a success story yet, but I think I'm on my way. hey I am proud of you. I am only at day 9 and I feel like s/hit. so you are doing very well. I have not ever gone more that 2 weeks without talking to him so I think you are the bomb!!
Teacher's Pet Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 Good going! The first month is the hardest...and like anything else..it gets easier over time. I'm at just over a year and counting, and it's been rough...but very interesting. Keep us informed as to your progress! -tp bi**h free for nearly 13 months! lol
number2 Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 I'm on day 10 myself -- it's tough, but we'll get through it.
9Lives Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 Good going! The first month is the hardest...and like anything else..it gets easier over time. I'm at just over a year and counting, and it's been rough...but very interesting. Keep us informed as to your progress! -tp bi**h free for nearly 13 months! lol I am glad to hear this will get better...been crying this morning. I look a hot mess. i miss him dearly. Not breaking NC though. Will hve to suffer it out
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